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<blockquote data-quote="crystal2" data-source="post: 419702" data-attributes="member: 11660"><p>Sorry, I should have given more info. Her bio dad moved 600 miles away when she was an infant and had very little contact with her until 2005. His contact has increased since. She claims that she wants to live with him, but we didnt have these types of problems before. I meant to say, he is now trying to get sole custody. </p><p>My husband and I have been married for 6 years so he is really the only father figure my daughter has known. When he has spanked her (a total of 5 times maybe), its been really in self defense because she was hitting him or kicking him or her sister. Its like she blames him for her dad not being here. Granted the spanking was not effective and maybe she is a little too old for that. But what do you do when they hit you? If you try to restrain them, that can leave bruises and you cant allow them to hit you. But, he has stepped back from all discipline with her and I have made arrangements where they dont have to be alone, to protect my husband from false allegations. We are not currently using any forms of physical discipline any more. We are just at a loss on how to make things better and to help her. I also told her biodad that a custody battle is really the last thing my daughter needs at the moment. </p><p></p><p>I appreciate the responses, I will work on my signature.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="crystal2, post: 419702, member: 11660"] Sorry, I should have given more info. Her bio dad moved 600 miles away when she was an infant and had very little contact with her until 2005. His contact has increased since. She claims that she wants to live with him, but we didnt have these types of problems before. I meant to say, he is now trying to get sole custody. My husband and I have been married for 6 years so he is really the only father figure my daughter has known. When he has spanked her (a total of 5 times maybe), its been really in self defense because she was hitting him or kicking him or her sister. Its like she blames him for her dad not being here. Granted the spanking was not effective and maybe she is a little too old for that. But what do you do when they hit you? If you try to restrain them, that can leave bruises and you cant allow them to hit you. But, he has stepped back from all discipline with her and I have made arrangements where they dont have to be alone, to protect my husband from false allegations. We are not currently using any forms of physical discipline any more. We are just at a loss on how to make things better and to help her. I also told her biodad that a custody battle is really the last thing my daughter needs at the moment. I appreciate the responses, I will work on my signature. [/QUOTE]
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