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Son is tired of living-going to commit suicide tonight or tomorrow.
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 699635" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi BG, I'm so sorry you are going through this. I do understand. I'm glad you alerted the people where he is staying and they are keeping an eye on him.</p><p></p><p>My son posted on FB a few days ago that he too was tired of living. He said his cell phone would be cut off because he could not pay the bill (that's what happens when you don't want to work). Yes, it does scare me to hear him talk like that but all I could do was tell him that I'm sorry he's having such a tough time and to hang in there and that I love him. Others also posted to him to hang in there.</p><p></p><p>I have been down this road with my son many times where he says he's tired of living and just wants to end it all and yet he always manages to get through it. That is my hope for your son as well that he will get through this.</p><p></p><p>There is nothing you can do for him. Even if you did allow him to live with you think about what that would look like. How would it change him? How would it change you?</p><p> I can only speak for myself but I know if I were to let my son live with us he would be nothing but a mooch. I know he would not put forth any effort to get a job. I know he would not help us around the house. All it would do is enable him and make me miserable. </p><p></p><p>I love my son just as you do yours and it hurts when they say they just want to end it all. The best thing we can do is to take care of ourselves. Our children have to figure out how to survive on their own.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there BG!</p><p></p><p>((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 699635, member: 18516"] Hi BG, I'm so sorry you are going through this. I do understand. I'm glad you alerted the people where he is staying and they are keeping an eye on him. My son posted on FB a few days ago that he too was tired of living. He said his cell phone would be cut off because he could not pay the bill (that's what happens when you don't want to work). Yes, it does scare me to hear him talk like that but all I could do was tell him that I'm sorry he's having such a tough time and to hang in there and that I love him. Others also posted to him to hang in there. I have been down this road with my son many times where he says he's tired of living and just wants to end it all and yet he always manages to get through it. That is my hope for your son as well that he will get through this. There is nothing you can do for him. Even if you did allow him to live with you think about what that would look like. How would it change him? How would it change you? I can only speak for myself but I know if I were to let my son live with us he would be nothing but a mooch. I know he would not put forth any effort to get a job. I know he would not help us around the house. All it would do is enable him and make me miserable. I love my son just as you do yours and it hurts when they say they just want to end it all. The best thing we can do is to take care of ourselves. Our children have to figure out how to survive on their own. Hang in there BG! ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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