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Son just contacted me only to asked for help with groceries..what do I say to him?
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<blockquote data-quote="dollphyn" data-source="post: 473728" data-attributes="member: 13020"><p>I got him a couple of sacks with some items ready for him to come pick up last night. I was actually excited with the thought to get to see him, although hubs told me to not let him in the house, I was going to step outside on the porch and talk to him and I just wanted to hug him. I just want him to know we still love hiim, but we are not going to let him back in our home and we are not going to help him ANYMORE except maybe with a few grocerie items every now and then. He has been staying with a friend across town. He does not have a car anymore, since we took ours back after the incident with him coming home driving it after he had been drinking. Well husband leaves to go to work at 3pm and I sit after he left and just waited for difficult child to call and tell me he was on his way...I never got the call. So I got on facebook and there was a message from him telling me he had no way to get here, his friend and the ride fell through. I am pretty good at reading between the lines with my boy and I think what is already happening is some bridges may be getting burned with his friend that he is staying with. And that is beginning to worry me. I just wrote him back and told him the groceries will still be here when he can get a ride to come pick them up. I have given him names and numbers of shelters downtown, one being a very nice one. If he would only learn how to act and learn people are only going to take so much...what the heck is wrong with him..after ou burn so many bridges you have GOT to have sense enough to know you can not treat people like that..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dollphyn, post: 473728, member: 13020"] I got him a couple of sacks with some items ready for him to come pick up last night. I was actually excited with the thought to get to see him, although hubs told me to not let him in the house, I was going to step outside on the porch and talk to him and I just wanted to hug him. I just want him to know we still love hiim, but we are not going to let him back in our home and we are not going to help him ANYMORE except maybe with a few grocerie items every now and then. He has been staying with a friend across town. He does not have a car anymore, since we took ours back after the incident with him coming home driving it after he had been drinking. Well husband leaves to go to work at 3pm and I sit after he left and just waited for difficult child to call and tell me he was on his way...I never got the call. So I got on facebook and there was a message from him telling me he had no way to get here, his friend and the ride fell through. I am pretty good at reading between the lines with my boy and I think what is already happening is some bridges may be getting burned with his friend that he is staying with. And that is beginning to worry me. I just wrote him back and told him the groceries will still be here when he can get a ride to come pick them up. I have given him names and numbers of shelters downtown, one being a very nice one. If he would only learn how to act and learn people are only going to take so much...what the heck is wrong with him..after ou burn so many bridges you have GOT to have sense enough to know you can not treat people like that.. [/QUOTE]
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