TerryJ2
Well-Known Member
In another thread, Fran mentioned having her son drive a diff car to get him out of his comfort zone, and I really like that idea.
This a.m., difficult child had a dermatology appointment for his eczema (on his face), and easy child had to drop us off at husband's ofc because his car is in the shop and he borrowed mine. The dermatologist is 2 blks away from his ofc.
We were running late and we had a dental appointment for difficult child an hr later, and once you show up late for one thing, that starts the ball rolling and everything is late all day. So I told difficult child to run inside the dermatologist's ofc, check in, and show them the ins. card, and I would have easy child drop me off at my car. The ofc is a [[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[
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Hey, the cat is on my
key board!
Hold on-.
After we pulled away, easy child commented on what a bad idea that was. I said, "You think I push him too hard, don't you?"
She said, "Yes."
If he didn't want to, he would have said so. He's not one to suffer in silence, ya know?
Since easy child did the guilt thing, I asked difficult child later if it bothered him to walk in alone and wait until I got there.
He said, "No."
Okay, I'll take his word for it.
This a.m., difficult child had a dermatology appointment for his eczema (on his face), and easy child had to drop us off at husband's ofc because his car is in the shop and he borrowed mine. The dermatologist is 2 blks away from his ofc.
We were running late and we had a dental appointment for difficult child an hr later, and once you show up late for one thing, that starts the ball rolling and everything is late all day. So I told difficult child to run inside the dermatologist's ofc, check in, and show them the ins. card, and I would have easy child drop me off at my car. The ofc is a [[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[
''''''''single story bldg with-a garden
444444444444 cxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx/ZEW#33333
Hey, the cat is on my
key board!
Hold on-.
After we pulled away, easy child commented on what a bad idea that was. I said, "You think I push him too hard, don't you?"
She said, "Yes."
If he didn't want to, he would have said so. He's not one to suffer in silence, ya know?
Since easy child did the guilt thing, I asked difficult child later if it bothered him to walk in alone and wait until I got there.
He said, "No."
Okay, I'll take his word for it.