we got here Saturday night, and now two days later, things had gotten so bad that he packed his bags and was going to go back home today - a 6+hour drive. Luckily he calmed down, but I don't blame him. If we were at home, I probably would have gotten in the car and drove somewhere just to get away from difficult child. And what brought us to all of this? Two girls fighting over one swimsuit top. difficult child wore it the last two nights to use at the indoor pool at the condo. Tonight, easy child wanted to wear it, and had it on. Of course, things escalated and difficult child started pushing and yelling at easy child that she wished she would drown at the pool, or curl up in a hole and die, etc, etc, etc,. Then husband called both girls in to the living room to try and calm down the situation. difficult child just escalated everything and tried to run out of the room and husband stepped about a half a foot to his right and difficult child tried to squeeze past him and ended up hitting the TV cabinet and falling to the floor. She wasn't hurt, as in no scratches or bruises, but did bump her head.
I think it scared husband so much that he just wanted to go home. I think we are both so aware that just about anything we do could be held against us if difficult child makes any allegations. SO much for having a fun spring break.
I got husband calmed down and hopefully the rest of the week will be better. But I am still seething inside that things can turn bad so fast. KSM
I think it scared husband so much that he just wanted to go home. I think we are both so aware that just about anything we do could be held against us if difficult child makes any allegations. SO much for having a fun spring break.
I got husband calmed down and hopefully the rest of the week will be better. But I am still seething inside that things can turn bad so fast. KSM