Arttillygirl
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Well still don't know what to do. Grades aren't above Cs although attitude is better.
We had signed difficult child up for a spring break trip in March but bought the insurance just in case.
We had hoped it would be a great year and this trip would continue to bond him to his school friends and the club he's in. But he gets so explosive (his girlfriend broke up with- him and he texted her and said if she called him that name again he would kill her) for example. He lost his phone for 10 days and we showed him how a threat like that could be a felony according to the internet news.
Why can't he just do right? He knows right from wrong why does every rule have to be tested?
So we've told him since he hates the school and says he's not going back next year we are not spending a thousand dollars to send him on a vacation with them. Am I making a mistake? He is obviously upset. He says it's not his fault he wants to leave, etc.
Part of me says just send him and maybe it will plant a positive seed in his rocky life but my husband says tough love. Please, I need opinions, we have to decide soon!
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We had signed difficult child up for a spring break trip in March but bought the insurance just in case.
We had hoped it would be a great year and this trip would continue to bond him to his school friends and the club he's in. But he gets so explosive (his girlfriend broke up with- him and he texted her and said if she called him that name again he would kill her) for example. He lost his phone for 10 days and we showed him how a threat like that could be a felony according to the internet news.
Why can't he just do right? He knows right from wrong why does every rule have to be tested?
So we've told him since he hates the school and says he's not going back next year we are not spending a thousand dollars to send him on a vacation with them. Am I making a mistake? He is obviously upset. He says it's not his fault he wants to leave, etc.
Part of me says just send him and maybe it will plant a positive seed in his rocky life but my husband says tough love. Please, I need opinions, we have to decide soon!
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