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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 81220" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>I am not trying to change the thread...just wanted to say something in regards to the 'addiction'</p><p></p><p>In my view, addiction is something that takes over your life.</p><p></p><p>An addict only thinks of getting high, nothing else matters to them.</p><p></p><p>In my 'addiction' to changing my son, I was consumed by it. Nothing else mattered as long as I could get my son to change.</p><p></p><p>I let everything else in my life go on the back burner and all my thoughts and strengths went into 'helping' him.</p><p></p><p>I believe there has to be a healthy balance, that is why I used the word addiction to start with.</p><p></p><p>In an addiction you are totally consumed. It can't be good for any of us to let everything in our lives go and live only to change the path that our child takes.</p><p></p><p>I, over the course of several years, cut family ties and friends and my marriage almost ended not to mention what it did to poor easy child to live with a mom consumed with what difficult child was doing.</p><p></p><p>You can't be fully consumed by your difficult child and continue to be a healthy person and give to the others in your life that need you too.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Traci</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 81220, member: 2389"] I am not trying to change the thread...just wanted to say something in regards to the 'addiction' In my view, addiction is something that takes over your life. An addict only thinks of getting high, nothing else matters to them. In my 'addiction' to changing my son, I was consumed by it. Nothing else mattered as long as I could get my son to change. I let everything else in my life go on the back burner and all my thoughts and strengths went into 'helping' him. I believe there has to be a healthy balance, that is why I used the word addiction to start with. In an addiction you are totally consumed. It can't be good for any of us to let everything in our lives go and live only to change the path that our child takes. I, over the course of several years, cut family ties and friends and my marriage almost ended not to mention what it did to poor easy child to live with a mom consumed with what difficult child was doing. You can't be fully consumed by your difficult child and continue to be a healthy person and give to the others in your life that need you too. Traci [/QUOTE]
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