klmno
Active Member
It appears difficult child got up in the night and got my keys somehow, took cigs and his cell phone I had previously confiscated from the trunk of my car, cut up BRAND NEW rubberware that I;'d bought because the color matched my kitchen and made a water bong. It appears only tobacco was smoked in it. Technically this is not a parole violation but I still left a message for PO because difficult child isn't supposed to be smoking cigs and because we'd talked earlier and I had said difficult child had been great since coming home Thurs. evening.
PO also told me it was the def attny who had asked for GAL to be assigned- the def attny had said it was the judge pushing for one. PO said no one had asked him if I'd been complaint or supportive but if they do, he will tell them I have and that he has not seen anything amiss in what I'm doing for difficult child. But you know, so many people lie over there I don't know what to believe. He said the matter of my mental health or being a contributing factor in difficult child's delinquent acts was not discussed at all when they were all in the court room without me and difficult child. Then I wonder what was discussed if that is true. Anyway, it appears now that it's the defense attny who will push the issue that I'm to blame in order to try to keep difficult child from getting recommitted at the next offense. I understand that's his job, however getting difficult child into my bro's hands is not in his best interest and will not lead to difficult child straightening out. These things I am sure of.
PO also told me it was the def attny who had asked for GAL to be assigned- the def attny had said it was the judge pushing for one. PO said no one had asked him if I'd been complaint or supportive but if they do, he will tell them I have and that he has not seen anything amiss in what I'm doing for difficult child. But you know, so many people lie over there I don't know what to believe. He said the matter of my mental health or being a contributing factor in difficult child's delinquent acts was not discussed at all when they were all in the court room without me and difficult child. Then I wonder what was discussed if that is true. Anyway, it appears now that it's the defense attny who will push the issue that I'm to blame in order to try to keep difficult child from getting recommitted at the next offense. I understand that's his job, however getting difficult child into my bro's hands is not in his best interest and will not lead to difficult child straightening out. These things I am sure of.