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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 89265" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dammit Janet</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> it gets harder before it gets better. </div></div></p><p></p><p>That is the part that scares me and I think that is why I continue to want to hear the stupid stuff he's doing. I find when things get hard, I try and take the easy way out. I'm always afraid that I'm going to start thinking maybe what he did wasn't so bad and it would just be easier to try and work things out and stay together then to go through everything I know is ahead of me. I think that is why I may have stayed in the marriage for so long, when thinking back, I have been unhappy for so long. It was easier just to live that way and sacrifice my happiness then to go through what is ahead of me now. I just have to remember that I know in my heart, if I allow myself to take what looks like the easy way out now, I will be in this same place again somebody very soon and I don't ever want to go through this again. </p><p></p><p>I guess I have to suit up and put on my warrior gear. :warrior: The biggest thing I need to always do at all times is to think long and hard before I make any major moves or decisions. I don't want to jump into anything that I am going to regret later on down the road.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 89265, member: 2442"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dammit Janet</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> it gets harder before it gets better. </div></div> That is the part that scares me and I think that is why I continue to want to hear the stupid stuff he's doing. I find when things get hard, I try and take the easy way out. I'm always afraid that I'm going to start thinking maybe what he did wasn't so bad and it would just be easier to try and work things out and stay together then to go through everything I know is ahead of me. I think that is why I may have stayed in the marriage for so long, when thinking back, I have been unhappy for so long. It was easier just to live that way and sacrifice my happiness then to go through what is ahead of me now. I just have to remember that I know in my heart, if I allow myself to take what looks like the easy way out now, I will be in this same place again somebody very soon and I don't ever want to go through this again. I guess I have to suit up and put on my warrior gear. [img]:warrior:[/img] The biggest thing I need to always do at all times is to think long and hard before I make any major moves or decisions. I don't want to jump into anything that I am going to regret later on down the road. [/QUOTE]
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