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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 89281" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>I do know exactly what you are saying DDD. Sometimes I start to wonder if this makes the last 27 years a waste of time, but I know the answer to that. Just because it doesn't work anymore, it did work at one time and I can hang onto those good memories and I know in my heart it was not all a waste. There were many good years in the beginning, and we have two wonderful children that will always be ours. The thought of ever being with him again physically, makes me ill. I do not miss that part at all because he has made it impossible for me to miss. Him not being a part of my life at all, even though I am still so angry and hurt, I do sometimes miss. He has been a part of my everyday life for 30 years. I know that is going to take a long long time to get over and it's not going to be easy. </p><p></p><p>I guess what really makes me angry is that I don't think he's feeling what I am feeling. He's moving onto another relationship so he doesn't have to face this and feel this way. I guess if I really wanted to, I could do the same thing, but I know it will all have to be dealt with eventually, so why put it off. </p><p></p><p>He has made my life pretty miserable, so I think his should be the same now. Instead he's starting a new relationship and taking the excitement of that to replace what we had and I'm sure he's taking this excitement and thinking, see, these are all the things that were wrong in our marriage. This is what was missing. Just wait until she has to divide her attention between him and her daughter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 89281, member: 2442"] I do know exactly what you are saying DDD. Sometimes I start to wonder if this makes the last 27 years a waste of time, but I know the answer to that. Just because it doesn't work anymore, it did work at one time and I can hang onto those good memories and I know in my heart it was not all a waste. There were many good years in the beginning, and we have two wonderful children that will always be ours. The thought of ever being with him again physically, makes me ill. I do not miss that part at all because he has made it impossible for me to miss. Him not being a part of my life at all, even though I am still so angry and hurt, I do sometimes miss. He has been a part of my everyday life for 30 years. I know that is going to take a long long time to get over and it's not going to be easy. I guess what really makes me angry is that I don't think he's feeling what I am feeling. He's moving onto another relationship so he doesn't have to face this and feel this way. I guess if I really wanted to, I could do the same thing, but I know it will all have to be dealt with eventually, so why put it off. He has made my life pretty miserable, so I think his should be the same now. Instead he's starting a new relationship and taking the excitement of that to replace what we had and I'm sure he's taking this excitement and thinking, see, these are all the things that were wrong in our marriage. This is what was missing. Just wait until she has to divide her attention between him and her daughter. [/QUOTE]
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