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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 89302" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Karen, I am sorry you are feeling sad and scared. If it helpsany, I do think you are doing the right thing by taking time to sort out your feelings and recover before looking for another relationship. You and your EX will always be connected since you share history and family and because you grew up together. Unfortunately growing up often is accompinied by growing apart. Your ex chose to fill a void he was feeling in a very damaging and inappropriate way. Instead of facing it and trying to work it through with you. He took it elsewhere and indulged fantacys that inevetably will loose their luster over time. By doing this he robbed you of the opportunity to try to repair and restore a failing marriage before it went to the act that you could not get past. You will feel a whole range of emotions as you recover from this blow. Try to deal with them in small managable doses. Take your time with this and you will be better off in the long run. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 89302, member: 2315"] Karen, I am sorry you are feeling sad and scared. If it helpsany, I do think you are doing the right thing by taking time to sort out your feelings and recover before looking for another relationship. You and your EX will always be connected since you share history and family and because you grew up together. Unfortunately growing up often is accompinied by growing apart. Your ex chose to fill a void he was feeling in a very damaging and inappropriate way. Instead of facing it and trying to work it through with you. He took it elsewhere and indulged fantacys that inevetably will loose their luster over time. By doing this he robbed you of the opportunity to try to repair and restore a failing marriage before it went to the act that you could not get past. You will feel a whole range of emotions as you recover from this blow. Try to deal with them in small managable doses. Take your time with this and you will be better off in the long run. -RM [/QUOTE]
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