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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 89545" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>Thanks Sharon. Your story sounds like it's as close to mine as it can get. I know those years weren't a waste because I do have two beautiful children also. I wouldn't have them if I hadn't married him in the first place and there were many good years along the way. </p><p></p><p>We haven't started the divorce process yet. That is what I was taking the time and space to really think about because I didn't want to jump into anything to quickly that I would regret later. Guess I didn't really think he'd have a new girlfriend the day after I moved out to take that time and space. </p><p></p><p>Right now I'm being stubborn and waiting for him to file because he has it in his head, even though as the counselor pointed out that he already left me when he chose to have an affair, that he will never be the one to serve me or file, I will have to be the one to leave him. He is counting on this because he wants to say to people, look my wife left me, so he can further justify why he has a girlfriend already. Another cowardly move on his part. I have no intention of starting a new relationship, so I really have no reason to start that process yet. Let him step up to the plate for once. It won't bother me if he serves me, because he already left me two months ago. As far as I'm concerned nothing can hurt anymore then what he has already done.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 89545, member: 2442"] Thanks Sharon. Your story sounds like it's as close to mine as it can get. I know those years weren't a waste because I do have two beautiful children also. I wouldn't have them if I hadn't married him in the first place and there were many good years along the way. We haven't started the divorce process yet. That is what I was taking the time and space to really think about because I didn't want to jump into anything to quickly that I would regret later. Guess I didn't really think he'd have a new girlfriend the day after I moved out to take that time and space. Right now I'm being stubborn and waiting for him to file because he has it in his head, even though as the counselor pointed out that he already left me when he chose to have an affair, that he will never be the one to serve me or file, I will have to be the one to leave him. He is counting on this because he wants to say to people, look my wife left me, so he can further justify why he has a girlfriend already. Another cowardly move on his part. I have no intention of starting a new relationship, so I really have no reason to start that process yet. Let him step up to the plate for once. It won't bother me if he serves me, because he already left me two months ago. As far as I'm concerned nothing can hurt anymore then what he has already done. [/QUOTE]
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