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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 358598" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Ok- calling in dss for a prarental placement is what I tried last year right before difficult child pulled a knife on me for the second time. This was after the county team refused to do anything exxcept push the PO to address the problem and punish difficult child. Anyway, it requires bringing difficult child home then going over to court services unit and signing up and they (dss) meet with the parent within 10 days. The night I did this before is when difficult child pulled the knife on me. I am not willing to go thru that again- especially since dss and others already told me that they will not allow a parental placement because 1) difficult child is involved with courts already and PO should be addressing his needs and 2) if dss takes difficult child from courts, he will go where they decide and that means my bro since our law recently changed. Today- I doubt they can get my bro up here that fast. Where they go or what they do after today is anyone's guess. difficult child has been informed and fore-warned - he was fore-warned about not being allowed to come back home, what my bro did to me, and my serious concerns about his own safety. I honestly don't know what else I could do. I tried for several years to do whatever it took to keep difficult child out of my bro's hands due to concerns for difficult child's safety. But it has reached a point where both difficult child and the system is using this above my head to keep this joke of a process rolling. At this point, I feel I have no choice but to back up and let them all take responsibility for their own choices.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 358598, member: 3699"] Ok- calling in dss for a prarental placement is what I tried last year right before difficult child pulled a knife on me for the second time. This was after the county team refused to do anything exxcept push the PO to address the problem and punish difficult child. Anyway, it requires bringing difficult child home then going over to court services unit and signing up and they (dss) meet with the parent within 10 days. The night I did this before is when difficult child pulled the knife on me. I am not willing to go thru that again- especially since dss and others already told me that they will not allow a parental placement because 1) difficult child is involved with courts already and PO should be addressing his needs and 2) if dss takes difficult child from courts, he will go where they decide and that means my bro since our law recently changed. Today- I doubt they can get my bro up here that fast. Where they go or what they do after today is anyone's guess. difficult child has been informed and fore-warned - he was fore-warned about not being allowed to come back home, what my bro did to me, and my serious concerns about his own safety. I honestly don't know what else I could do. I tried for several years to do whatever it took to keep difficult child out of my bro's hands due to concerns for difficult child's safety. But it has reached a point where both difficult child and the system is using this above my head to keep this joke of a process rolling. At this point, I feel I have no choice but to back up and let them all take responsibility for their own choices. [/QUOTE]
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