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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 358601" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Crazy - you snuck in on me. We've been going thru this for 4 years already. My family put the seed of doubt that I'm the problem in these people's minds about 3 years ago. I have fought all I could while both difficult child and the system held this threat over my head. I spent thousands of dollars fighting it- I lost my job- difficult child kept bullying more and more. It's time for it to be over. If I file for parental placement, I get no attny. If they go after me, I get an attny and a say in court. Not that it matters much- the main thing is that this enabling, dysfunctional situation has to stop ASAP- for both difficult child's and my sake. difficult child wants to be emancipated- I'm not willing to follow the system's requirements and pay all restitution that keeps racking up and be blamed for it all. I've been catching it from the system, the family, and difficult child for years and it has to stop. Now. The only thing they all agree on is that I must be the problem. OK- then I can't fight that. Never mind that they all disagree on HOW I'm the problem. (Ie- I'm too easy, I'm too strict, I have MH issues, I don't care about the law, whatever). The quicker difficult child gets in a different situation, the better for ebveryone and the quicker this gets resolved. At this point, I feel so much pain that jail doesn't even phase me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 358601, member: 3699"] Crazy - you snuck in on me. We've been going thru this for 4 years already. My family put the seed of doubt that I'm the problem in these people's minds about 3 years ago. I have fought all I could while both difficult child and the system held this threat over my head. I spent thousands of dollars fighting it- I lost my job- difficult child kept bullying more and more. It's time for it to be over. If I file for parental placement, I get no attny. If they go after me, I get an attny and a say in court. Not that it matters much- the main thing is that this enabling, dysfunctional situation has to stop ASAP- for both difficult child's and my sake. difficult child wants to be emancipated- I'm not willing to follow the system's requirements and pay all restitution that keeps racking up and be blamed for it all. I've been catching it from the system, the family, and difficult child for years and it has to stop. Now. The only thing they all agree on is that I must be the problem. OK- then I can't fight that. Never mind that they all disagree on HOW I'm the problem. (Ie- I'm too easy, I'm too strict, I have MH issues, I don't care about the law, whatever). The quicker difficult child gets in a different situation, the better for ebveryone and the quicker this gets resolved. At this point, I feel so much pain that jail doesn't even phase me. [/QUOTE]
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