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Steam is coming out of my ears!
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<blockquote data-quote="confuzzled" data-source="post: 359004" data-attributes="member: 8831"><p>here's my <em>guess.</em></p><p> </p><p>its nothing personal, and its nothing they are doing "to you".</p><p> </p><p>its the protocol the system follows. maybe it stinks, maybe there are cases in which the parent has some responsibility, more likely not, but its part and parcel of the system.</p><p> </p><p>and i dont blame you for not wanting to do it. </p><p> </p><p>i might take a different approach if i couldnt afford my own lawyer. i *MIGHT* consider going to another town and finding a psychiatrist or a neuropsychologist to run whatever the</p><p>test is that the court ordered. and i'd pay out of pocket. and then i'd get the report and see what it says.....</p><p> </p><p>and when it says you are a perfectly normal i'd hand the report over to the court. maybe with a big fat file of notes from your current therapist to support the interpretation if it does.</p><p>(and in the event it shows you are certifiable, i'd burn it and never speak of it again!)</p><p> </p><p>and when that isnt sufficient to satisfy the order, then i'd hire a lawyer to argue the point that it was an independent evaluation to meet the court requirements.</p><p> </p><p>just a thought.</p><p> </p><p>i'm so sorry for you--your story is heartbreaking.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="confuzzled, post: 359004, member: 8831"] here's my [I]guess.[/I] its nothing personal, and its nothing they are doing "to you". its the protocol the system follows. maybe it stinks, maybe there are cases in which the parent has some responsibility, more likely not, but its part and parcel of the system. and i dont blame you for not wanting to do it. i might take a different approach if i couldnt afford my own lawyer. i *MIGHT* consider going to another town and finding a psychiatrist or a neuropsychologist to run whatever the test is that the court ordered. and i'd pay out of pocket. and then i'd get the report and see what it says..... and when it says you are a perfectly normal i'd hand the report over to the court. maybe with a big fat file of notes from your current therapist to support the interpretation if it does. (and in the event it shows you are certifiable, i'd burn it and never speak of it again!) and when that isnt sufficient to satisfy the order, then i'd hire a lawyer to argue the point that it was an independent evaluation to meet the court requirements. just a thought. i'm so sorry for you--your story is heartbreaking. [/QUOTE]
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