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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 359010" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I don't have the money to do that and they would blow it off anyway. They blew off EVERY evaluation done on difficult child by state experts and the like. The PO then told the county mental health evaluator what outcome they wanted to see for difficult child and shocker here- that's what the county evaluator came up with and that's what the judge went by. That is exactly why I don't trust this.</p><p></p><p>In case I need to clarify this- I don't mind getting a diagnosis if it'sd accurate- what I mind is someone in the courts becoming convinced of something then telling a mental hwealth person what to "determine" and ending up with court orders to get a treatment for something that was never accurately diagnosis'd. This screams corruption to me. And if these people really had any respect for mental health treatment, they would realize this is just as wrong as tell any MD what physical diagnosis to come up with and treat someone for.</p><p></p><p>It was faulty for them to conclude this to begin with. There is NOTHING to indicate that I allow or encourage or cause my son to break the law. I have no record, I am involved and supportive with the sd, I've made sure my son was compliant with appts, etc. But solely because he had a GAL that spent more time listening to my bro blame me and spread this around and everyone assumes she must have been right, I get treated like the delinquent.</p><p>And in this juvenile court, I have never seen any attny do anything other than play along with the rest of them so I'm not holding my breath that any attny would really go in there and fight this for me. The most I could hope for is that they help get a low sentnece. There is only so much sentence they can give for something like this. But you know, after 3-4 years and complying with probably 50 orders, I'm a horrible person because I drew a line and didn't jump to let them blame me. So now they act like I wasn't complying all along-0 the record shows differently but they don't care and are ignoring that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 359010, member: 3699"] I don't have the money to do that and they would blow it off anyway. They blew off EVERY evaluation done on difficult child by state experts and the like. The PO then told the county mental health evaluator what outcome they wanted to see for difficult child and shocker here- that's what the county evaluator came up with and that's what the judge went by. That is exactly why I don't trust this. In case I need to clarify this- I don't mind getting a diagnosis if it'sd accurate- what I mind is someone in the courts becoming convinced of something then telling a mental hwealth person what to "determine" and ending up with court orders to get a treatment for something that was never accurately diagnosis'd. This screams corruption to me. And if these people really had any respect for mental health treatment, they would realize this is just as wrong as tell any MD what physical diagnosis to come up with and treat someone for. It was faulty for them to conclude this to begin with. There is NOTHING to indicate that I allow or encourage or cause my son to break the law. I have no record, I am involved and supportive with the sd, I've made sure my son was compliant with appts, etc. But solely because he had a GAL that spent more time listening to my bro blame me and spread this around and everyone assumes she must have been right, I get treated like the delinquent. And in this juvenile court, I have never seen any attny do anything other than play along with the rest of them so I'm not holding my breath that any attny would really go in there and fight this for me. The most I could hope for is that they help get a low sentnece. There is only so much sentence they can give for something like this. But you know, after 3-4 years and complying with probably 50 orders, I'm a horrible person because I drew a line and didn't jump to let them blame me. So now they act like I wasn't complying all along-0 the record shows differently but they don't care and are ignoring that. [/QUOTE]
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