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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 447977" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>It is odd and you're doin g a great job. I would just ask, as someone who had a bio-dad die and later a step-dad die as a youth, please don't say anything derogatory about the BM thru this or even later. Remember that all that is over and they need to remember whatever good they can about her. That doesn't mean they won't remember her faults and mistakes too or that they love you any less. I'm just throwing that out as someone who lost a father, had a first step-dad that constantly belittled things (including the past) then ended up with a great second step-father who was a great father image but then had to deal with my bio-dad's extended family belittling him, even after he died. in my humble opinion, the best thing for the kids is once a bio-parent dies, let the differences between the bio-parent and others die as well. Just my 2 cents.</p><p></p><p>I would make J wear a solid pair of shoes though. Or at least a pair of comfortable shoes that look like a solid pair of shoes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 447977, member: 3699"] It is odd and you're doin g a great job. I would just ask, as someone who had a bio-dad die and later a step-dad die as a youth, please don't say anything derogatory about the BM thru this or even later. Remember that all that is over and they need to remember whatever good they can about her. That doesn't mean they won't remember her faults and mistakes too or that they love you any less. I'm just throwing that out as someone who lost a father, had a first step-dad that constantly belittled things (including the past) then ended up with a great second step-father who was a great father image but then had to deal with my bio-dad's extended family belittling him, even after he died. in my humble opinion, the best thing for the kids is once a bio-parent dies, let the differences between the bio-parent and others die as well. Just my 2 cents. I would make J wear a solid pair of shoes though. Or at least a pair of comfortable shoes that look like a solid pair of shoes. [/QUOTE]
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