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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 175993" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>No way will stepgfg be given this site. No. This is <strong>my</strong> safe haven. And if she finds her way here, I'll have to change my sig and username and the whole ball of wax. And I will tell Nichole to keep the site to herself. </p><p> </p><p>Nichole did get back in touch with her tonight. (me sitting beside her) easy child called while this was going on, but easy child is not taking this well. She has a right to her anger, just as much as Nichole has to want to heal and attempt to move forward.</p><p> </p><p>Stepgfg and Nichole exchanged some basic news. Nichole did ask for an explanation as to why she took off the way she did and didn't contact anyone. Stepgfg said the then boyfriend had a better job offer back in Mo. <strong>Yeah, ok. Right. Mr. Illiterate is gonna get an offer he just can't turn down for washing dishes. (please!)</strong> Then said she didn't contact us because she'd heard I didn't think she was a good Mom and that it had broken her heart because she loved and respected me so much. <strong>Uh, yeah. She heard because I'd told her I'd turned her in to CPS, and exactly why I'd done it. So evidently this was all some silly misunderstanding that I'm to blame for.</strong></p><p> </p><p>Then she said she's got something wrong with her brain that was found when she returned to MO via an MRI. A malformation of some sort that supposedly causes her much pain and anguish. Which she normally takes medications for, but can't right now since she's lost her insurance. <strong>Of course I can't know for sure, but this sends up a red flag of the ol' stepgfg manipulation. "poor pity me"</strong> <strong>Hard to know if there is any truth to it as stepgfg always did tend toward hypochondria like her Dad. (especially if she thought it would get her out of working)</strong></p><p> </p><p>Nichole sent off a picture of Aubrey. Then decided to add pics of Kayla and Alex as babies that I still have on my computer. These are pics I know stepgfg doesn't have, as all their baby stuff was left behind when she ran. I have it all, locked safely in my trunk of keepsakes. Nichole told her that as well.</p><p> </p><p>After that email stepgfg got off line without replying. But easy child had also gotten back on. Nichole was worried that easy child had contacted stepgfg and was giving her a piece of her mind. Possible. But easy child assured Nichole that it doesn't bother her that she is open to talking to stepgfg. While making it clear she doesn't feel the same way. Nichole was releaved. She didn't want easy child to be mad at her for talking to stepgfg.</p><p> </p><p>So.......I'm still sitting in the shadows. Which is where I'm content to stay at the moment. Nichole seems more comfortable talking to stepgfg at the moment with me near. They exchanged emails. (we already had stepgfg's - I'd found it a long time ago) She is not letting stepgfg know that I know the contact has been made, or that I'm reading the emails along with her. Because right now it's allowing me to keep the facts straight and not allow stepgfg to gloss over what happened 6 yrs ago.</p><p> </p><p>Nichole and I talked a long time tonight. Her expectations don't seem too high. (good) She said if all that comes of this is getting some answers and being able to find closure, then that will be enough. I hope so. I know we've talked more about stepgfg in the past 24 hrs than we have in the past 6 yrs.</p><p> </p><p>husband is furious, much of the same mind as easy child. But he will jump whichever way I want him to jump in the future. (it's the way he is) To be honest, stepgfg and I had a much closer relationship than she and husband ever did.</p><p> </p><p>Man. This is alot to take in.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 175993, member: 84"] No way will stepgfg be given this site. No. This is [B]my[/B] safe haven. And if she finds her way here, I'll have to change my sig and username and the whole ball of wax. And I will tell Nichole to keep the site to herself. Nichole did get back in touch with her tonight. (me sitting beside her) easy child called while this was going on, but easy child is not taking this well. She has a right to her anger, just as much as Nichole has to want to heal and attempt to move forward. Stepgfg and Nichole exchanged some basic news. Nichole did ask for an explanation as to why she took off the way she did and didn't contact anyone. Stepgfg said the then boyfriend had a better job offer back in Mo. [B]Yeah, ok. Right. Mr. Illiterate is gonna get an offer he just can't turn down for washing dishes. (please!)[/B] Then said she didn't contact us because she'd heard I didn't think she was a good Mom and that it had broken her heart because she loved and respected me so much. [B]Uh, yeah. She heard because I'd told her I'd turned her in to CPS, and exactly why I'd done it. So evidently this was all some silly misunderstanding that I'm to blame for.[/B] Then she said she's got something wrong with her brain that was found when she returned to MO via an MRI. A malformation of some sort that supposedly causes her much pain and anguish. Which she normally takes medications for, but can't right now since she's lost her insurance. [B]Of course I can't know for sure, but this sends up a red flag of the ol' stepgfg manipulation. "poor pity me"[/B] [B]Hard to know if there is any truth to it as stepgfg always did tend toward hypochondria like her Dad. (especially if she thought it would get her out of working)[/B] Nichole sent off a picture of Aubrey. Then decided to add pics of Kayla and Alex as babies that I still have on my computer. These are pics I know stepgfg doesn't have, as all their baby stuff was left behind when she ran. I have it all, locked safely in my trunk of keepsakes. Nichole told her that as well. After that email stepgfg got off line without replying. But easy child had also gotten back on. Nichole was worried that easy child had contacted stepgfg and was giving her a piece of her mind. Possible. But easy child assured Nichole that it doesn't bother her that she is open to talking to stepgfg. While making it clear she doesn't feel the same way. Nichole was releaved. She didn't want easy child to be mad at her for talking to stepgfg. So.......I'm still sitting in the shadows. Which is where I'm content to stay at the moment. Nichole seems more comfortable talking to stepgfg at the moment with me near. They exchanged emails. (we already had stepgfg's - I'd found it a long time ago) She is not letting stepgfg know that I know the contact has been made, or that I'm reading the emails along with her. Because right now it's allowing me to keep the facts straight and not allow stepgfg to gloss over what happened 6 yrs ago. Nichole and I talked a long time tonight. Her expectations don't seem too high. (good) She said if all that comes of this is getting some answers and being able to find closure, then that will be enough. I hope so. I know we've talked more about stepgfg in the past 24 hrs than we have in the past 6 yrs. husband is furious, much of the same mind as easy child. But he will jump whichever way I want him to jump in the future. (it's the way he is) To be honest, stepgfg and I had a much closer relationship than she and husband ever did. Man. This is alot to take in. [/QUOTE]
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