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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 469078"><p>{{hugs}} I know that if you are *not* on the release -it will sting like a bazillion angry bees. I would feel rejected- It's valid to feel hurt. </p><p></p><p>But I am glad you are focusing on the positive-because in reality-it is POSITIVE! So much good news in your post. He moved forward from detox, your H is on the release-and in the loop-and you found peace thru al-anon and had a good day.</p><p></p><p>I get too emotionally involved in my difficult child's weaknesses and mistakes and instead of pushing back -he pushes further away. My h swears it's because disappointing me is worse than letting himself down. Regardless, he pushes away-so I chase him and/or check up on him. Which doesn't help. Cycle of insanity. </p><p></p><p>He's in a safe place, has therapists & experts to help him and has chosen your husband-a man you both love and trust - as "middle man." Win-Win!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 469078"] {{hugs}} I know that if you are *not* on the release -it will sting like a bazillion angry bees. I would feel rejected- It's valid to feel hurt. But I am glad you are focusing on the positive-because in reality-it is POSITIVE! So much good news in your post. He moved forward from detox, your H is on the release-and in the loop-and you found peace thru al-anon and had a good day. I get too emotionally involved in my difficult child's weaknesses and mistakes and instead of pushing back -he pushes further away. My h swears it's because disappointing me is worse than letting himself down. Regardless, he pushes away-so I chase him and/or check up on him. Which doesn't help. Cycle of insanity. He's in a safe place, has therapists & experts to help him and has chosen your husband-a man you both love and trust - as "middle man." Win-Win!!! [/QUOTE]
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