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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 86427" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>First of all don't ever feel guilty about being more on the receiving then giving end of this board. We have all had our moments when our lives were in such termoil that we have only had the strength and energy to ask for help, but not to give it to others for the time being. You will be able to do that someday and we will appreciate it when the time comes.</p><p></p><p>I don't know what to tell you about your choices in not really searching for your son this time. You have done so in the past, he has come home, and then left again, so in the end it didn't really make a difference. You were hoping by not doing that this time, he would find his way home. The fact that he calls once in awhile says he still needs you and cares about whether you know he's alive and safe or not. Maybe next time he calls you could ask if you can meet somewhere to see him, on his own territory. This way he knows you want to see him, but you aren't trying to convince him to come home yet. </p><p></p><p>He is so very young. I hope someday he sees the light and decides to turn his life around.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 86427, member: 2442"] First of all don't ever feel guilty about being more on the receiving then giving end of this board. We have all had our moments when our lives were in such termoil that we have only had the strength and energy to ask for help, but not to give it to others for the time being. You will be able to do that someday and we will appreciate it when the time comes. I don't know what to tell you about your choices in not really searching for your son this time. You have done so in the past, he has come home, and then left again, so in the end it didn't really make a difference. You were hoping by not doing that this time, he would find his way home. The fact that he calls once in awhile says he still needs you and cares about whether you know he's alive and safe or not. Maybe next time he calls you could ask if you can meet somewhere to see him, on his own territory. This way he knows you want to see him, but you aren't trying to convince him to come home yet. He is so very young. I hope someday he sees the light and decides to turn his life around. [/QUOTE]
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