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Strugglin' horribly with 11 year old with Conduct Disorder & Personality Disorder
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<blockquote data-quote="Rachielee" data-source="post: 490464" data-attributes="member: 13435"><p>Buddy, love you for this! I have a majority of this stuff printed off, have brought to our appointments numerous times....I feel all of this is stemming from attachment issues, but they say because dad was there it should not be this extreme! I want to shake them cuz' I believe the writing is on the wall here. I don't think they completely refute this, but they have stated that this is mostly seen in orphans, children who have been tossed around, yada, yada, yada. His parents divorcing was extremely traumatic for him that I do know. I am a child of divorce as well, and I know it hurts like hell but I did not go through what he did. My mother did not leave me and then fit me in when she could get away from bowling and drinking. It was that way and still is hence the reason they do not go to see her much any longer. I cannot finish this right now and reading so far what you have put seriously brings me to tears because he is all of those things and all I see is a child who isn't living as a child should....a child who is carrying way more than even an adult would like to carry....I hate he feels like she abandoned him, I hate that I cannot take that hurt away from him and I hate that if we cannot get him help, the cycle will not be broken. He will not be able to have a normal, happy relationship, marriage, his social functioning is going to surely alienate him and if he is ever a parent, his children too will be victims of this vicious cycle. I will be back later this evening, hopefully to finish this and finish reading all you have provided me! Thank you so much.......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rachielee, post: 490464, member: 13435"] Buddy, love you for this! I have a majority of this stuff printed off, have brought to our appointments numerous times....I feel all of this is stemming from attachment issues, but they say because dad was there it should not be this extreme! I want to shake them cuz' I believe the writing is on the wall here. I don't think they completely refute this, but they have stated that this is mostly seen in orphans, children who have been tossed around, yada, yada, yada. His parents divorcing was extremely traumatic for him that I do know. I am a child of divorce as well, and I know it hurts like hell but I did not go through what he did. My mother did not leave me and then fit me in when she could get away from bowling and drinking. It was that way and still is hence the reason they do not go to see her much any longer. I cannot finish this right now and reading so far what you have put seriously brings me to tears because he is all of those things and all I see is a child who isn't living as a child should....a child who is carrying way more than even an adult would like to carry....I hate he feels like she abandoned him, I hate that I cannot take that hurt away from him and I hate that if we cannot get him help, the cycle will not be broken. He will not be able to have a normal, happy relationship, marriage, his social functioning is going to surely alienate him and if he is ever a parent, his children too will be victims of this vicious cycle. I will be back later this evening, hopefully to finish this and finish reading all you have provided me! Thank you so much....... [/QUOTE]
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