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Strugglin' horribly with 11 year old with Conduct Disorder & Personality Disorder
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<blockquote data-quote="Rachielee" data-source="post: 490603" data-attributes="member: 13435"><p>Good morning ~ I am soooo happy I found this site and my fellow "yankees"! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> You have no idea how much I miss home! Ya'll help bring it much closer so thank you <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Quick question: We have psychotherapy this afternoon at 2 PM. I am going to get pretty headstrong here when it comes to the attachment issues again. I kind of let them shut me down on that issue recently, not because I don't believe and feel that in my heart but because without any additional support I felt what was the use....I was battling myself. I know my husband loves his son tons but is not an emotional person or whatever...hard to explain. I talked to him last night about finding this site and my new "angels" (teehee)......reiterated all of the facts staring us in the face when it comes to attachment issues; I believe he thinks the same, but for the most part just got a nod of the head and partial attention to what I was saying <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /> Needless to say, I was hurt I guess because I have been racking my brain, on my knees constantly praying for God to lead me and guide me on this journey to the right people who can help us, most importantly Brad, and I just sometimes feel like I am a single parent. He is an amazing man truly and works his tail off....many, many long hours and is exhausted in the evenings BUT so am I and even moreso when he just nods his head. SOOOOO.......perhaps I'm a bit ultra sensitive, but I am going to dig and dig and keep on keeping on. It may not be tomorrow, may not be in 5 years or even 10 years, but I know someday every single millisecond of exhaustion because of this will be well worth it (that is my constant prayer).</p><p></p><p>Question is (sorry for getting caught up in babble) - how do I once again approach the therapist on the issue of attachment issues without being shut down?? Let me add this: 3 weeks they had started Brad on an anti-depressant for depression. After 2 weeks of taking this, his behaviors escalated to the level they are at now (we have never seen this extreme). I read the other night that if there is a component of bipolar, medications strictly for depression will intensify the bipolar issues.....can this be what is happening as well to account for the extreme change?? I stopped the depression medication needless to say....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rachielee, post: 490603, member: 13435"] Good morning ~ I am soooo happy I found this site and my fellow "yankees"! :) You have no idea how much I miss home! Ya'll help bring it much closer so thank you :) Quick question: We have psychotherapy this afternoon at 2 PM. I am going to get pretty headstrong here when it comes to the attachment issues again. I kind of let them shut me down on that issue recently, not because I don't believe and feel that in my heart but because without any additional support I felt what was the use....I was battling myself. I know my husband loves his son tons but is not an emotional person or whatever...hard to explain. I talked to him last night about finding this site and my new "angels" (teehee)......reiterated all of the facts staring us in the face when it comes to attachment issues; I believe he thinks the same, but for the most part just got a nod of the head and partial attention to what I was saying :angry: Needless to say, I was hurt I guess because I have been racking my brain, on my knees constantly praying for God to lead me and guide me on this journey to the right people who can help us, most importantly Brad, and I just sometimes feel like I am a single parent. He is an amazing man truly and works his tail off....many, many long hours and is exhausted in the evenings BUT so am I and even moreso when he just nods his head. SOOOOO.......perhaps I'm a bit ultra sensitive, but I am going to dig and dig and keep on keeping on. It may not be tomorrow, may not be in 5 years or even 10 years, but I know someday every single millisecond of exhaustion because of this will be well worth it (that is my constant prayer). Question is (sorry for getting caught up in babble) - how do I once again approach the therapist on the issue of attachment issues without being shut down?? Let me add this: 3 weeks they had started Brad on an anti-depressant for depression. After 2 weeks of taking this, his behaviors escalated to the level they are at now (we have never seen this extreme). I read the other night that if there is a component of bipolar, medications strictly for depression will intensify the bipolar issues.....can this be what is happening as well to account for the extreme change?? I stopped the depression medication needless to say.... [/QUOTE]
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