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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 336573" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I'm thinking about what you're saying, and really, I don't think there's any sting there...at least not where it involves what people think or DEX. And I know she's insecure. DEX has trouble keeping his pants on, and according to exMIL, that hasn't changed. God only knows what DEX tells her about me. He uses all his "women" to build himself up, so I'm not even going to pretend to know what's going on in either head.</p><p>***</p><p>I could drop the whole thing and it wouldn't bother me. I'm just playing along with my friends, and happen to find it funny. My friend, the cafe owner, has to deal with DEX and whacky girlfriend on a somewhat regular basis. She has been a wee supporter for almost as long as there's been Wee, and is very put out by the bio's actions; more so by the whacky girlfriend's actions. She and some other friends are having as much fun with it, if not more, than me. I just think its funny.</p><p>***</p><p>I do have a beef with her, though, and I know exactly what it is. My beef with her is her claimed "connection" to wee and difficult child 1 and the upheaval she has brought into their lives. Even her telling DEX's family that I was sleeping with the man that she's got on the side (who happens to be my husband's cousin!) doesn't bother me. I think that's funny (and have been known to play it up a little). My only beef with her is the chaos she's brought into the kids' lives.</p><p>***</p><p>Their father is absent and has been for years. No matter how much she wants her fairy tale to be true, its not. She has been with him for a year now, and has plotted to leave him at least 6 times (stats from exMIL). Each time, he talks her into staying and she becomes blind to reality, and starts her happy family dreams again, and wants the rest of us to join in because he's so wonderful, he has changed, he's the best daddy and grandpa in the world, blah blah blah blah.</p><p>***</p><p>Thanks to her, Wee is now aware that his bio dad is absent. He would have figured it out sometime, but later wouldn't have hurt anything, and up until this, we had been able to keep a positive spin on it.</p><p>***</p><p>Quite honestly, what I'd like to do is sit down with her and tell her about my life with DEX. Cause hers is just like it. He hasn't changed in 7 years. And as much as I am angry with her for dragging the kids thru the mud, I don't want to see anyone else hurt by DEX. But she hates me by proxy. So be it.</p><p>***</p><p>So if my friends post a picture of a fake ring on my finger that makes her think I got the better end of the deal, or whatever thought it might provoke, so be it. I'd rather be alone than back with him, so she'd be thinking right.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 336573, member: 1848"] I'm thinking about what you're saying, and really, I don't think there's any sting there...at least not where it involves what people think or DEX. And I know she's insecure. DEX has trouble keeping his pants on, and according to exMIL, that hasn't changed. God only knows what DEX tells her about me. He uses all his "women" to build himself up, so I'm not even going to pretend to know what's going on in either head. *** I could drop the whole thing and it wouldn't bother me. I'm just playing along with my friends, and happen to find it funny. My friend, the cafe owner, has to deal with DEX and whacky girlfriend on a somewhat regular basis. She has been a wee supporter for almost as long as there's been Wee, and is very put out by the bio's actions; more so by the whacky girlfriend's actions. She and some other friends are having as much fun with it, if not more, than me. I just think its funny. *** I do have a beef with her, though, and I know exactly what it is. My beef with her is her claimed "connection" to wee and difficult child 1 and the upheaval she has brought into their lives. Even her telling DEX's family that I was sleeping with the man that she's got on the side (who happens to be my husband's cousin!) doesn't bother me. I think that's funny (and have been known to play it up a little). My only beef with her is the chaos she's brought into the kids' lives. *** Their father is absent and has been for years. No matter how much she wants her fairy tale to be true, its not. She has been with him for a year now, and has plotted to leave him at least 6 times (stats from exMIL). Each time, he talks her into staying and she becomes blind to reality, and starts her happy family dreams again, and wants the rest of us to join in because he's so wonderful, he has changed, he's the best daddy and grandpa in the world, blah blah blah blah. *** Thanks to her, Wee is now aware that his bio dad is absent. He would have figured it out sometime, but later wouldn't have hurt anything, and up until this, we had been able to keep a positive spin on it. *** Quite honestly, what I'd like to do is sit down with her and tell her about my life with DEX. Cause hers is just like it. He hasn't changed in 7 years. And as much as I am angry with her for dragging the kids thru the mud, I don't want to see anyone else hurt by DEX. But she hates me by proxy. So be it. *** So if my friends post a picture of a fake ring on my finger that makes her think I got the better end of the deal, or whatever thought it might provoke, so be it. I'd rather be alone than back with him, so she'd be thinking right. [/QUOTE]
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