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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 612524" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I sure wish I could provide an easy answer for your family. Sadly, there really is no easy answer in my humble opinion. It is not going to get better with-o them detaching from his choices and, very importantly, convincing themselves that <strong>they deserve a better life and future.</strong> The decades fly by in adulthood just like they do in childhood. One week your two year old begins to turn into a boy instead of a baby. Ten years later he is looking at girls. Ten years later he usually is in college or working steadily. Nothing is going to change from 31 to 41 except the passage of time unless they are able to realize that he must face life on his own...the good and the bad. </p><p></p><p>I have never had to evict one of the kids but there is a procedure for doing so almost everywhere in the world. Often a document is drawn giving a 30 day notice. "Sometimes" seeing the document is a reality moment for the young adult. They don't want to be embarrassed. For the sake of their future I hope they can take action. It is great that they have your support as it may make it possible for them to move on. I'll say a prayer that this gets resolved. On the PE Board you will read how some have coped with this same problem. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 612524, member: 35"] I sure wish I could provide an easy answer for your family. Sadly, there really is no easy answer in my humble opinion. It is not going to get better with-o them detaching from his choices and, very importantly, convincing themselves that [B]they deserve a better life and future.[/B] The decades fly by in adulthood just like they do in childhood. One week your two year old begins to turn into a boy instead of a baby. Ten years later he is looking at girls. Ten years later he usually is in college or working steadily. Nothing is going to change from 31 to 41 except the passage of time unless they are able to realize that he must face life on his own...the good and the bad. I have never had to evict one of the kids but there is a procedure for doing so almost everywhere in the world. Often a document is drawn giving a 30 day notice. "Sometimes" seeing the document is a reality moment for the young adult. They don't want to be embarrassed. For the sake of their future I hope they can take action. It is great that they have your support as it may make it possible for them to move on. I'll say a prayer that this gets resolved. On the PE Board you will read how some have coped with this same problem. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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