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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 223545" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>I hate to say this but I guess someone has to. You're in denial and you and your husband are enablers.</p><p> </p><p>Whether you want to admit it or not, your daughter is an addict. You have all these things you want your daughter to do but they're meaningless. You let her pretty do all the things that got her into drugs in the first place and now you're willing to let her hang out with the girls she used these drugs with. </p><p> </p><p>Your daughter needs help. A lot more than she is getting. I know you say she's been clean and sober for 30-some days but I truly doubt it. It would be a small miracle if she hasn't used in that time. To demand that a young teen stop using without a lot of supports is like telling a paraplegic to get up and walk without surgery and therapy. It's not going to happen.</p><p> </p><p>Please help your daughter. Stop letting her run around. Get her into rehab. Force her to AA and NA. Do what you have to do. Tell husband to grow a spine and quit letting his little girl manipulate him. She's not a little girl anymore. She's growing into a young woman heading down a very dangerous path. She needs her parents to be strong and help her find her way through this. That is not going to happen if she keeps going to the same places and seeing the same people she did before you said no alcohol and no drugs. I doubt any human is that strong.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 223545, member: 3626"] I hate to say this but I guess someone has to. You're in denial and you and your husband are enablers. Whether you want to admit it or not, your daughter is an addict. You have all these things you want your daughter to do but they're meaningless. You let her pretty do all the things that got her into drugs in the first place and now you're willing to let her hang out with the girls she used these drugs with. Your daughter needs help. A lot more than she is getting. I know you say she's been clean and sober for 30-some days but I truly doubt it. It would be a small miracle if she hasn't used in that time. To demand that a young teen stop using without a lot of supports is like telling a paraplegic to get up and walk without surgery and therapy. It's not going to happen. Please help your daughter. Stop letting her run around. Get her into rehab. Force her to AA and NA. Do what you have to do. Tell husband to grow a spine and quit letting his little girl manipulate him. She's not a little girl anymore. She's growing into a young woman heading down a very dangerous path. She needs her parents to be strong and help her find her way through this. That is not going to happen if she keeps going to the same places and seeing the same people she did before you said no alcohol and no drugs. I doubt any human is that strong. [/QUOTE]
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