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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 201837" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>also i know that i have all of your support with the choice i have made. i can only say that i don't hope that it works, i hope that it all turns out however it's supposed to. i was reminded by a friend the other night in an email i never do for me either. i don't take care of me so thats another huge priority. i started very smal yesterday by removing myself once kids were in bed and actually reading a magazine. small yet a start.another very important reason for this choice is it was not done with intent to hurt me even though it did so very badly, it was him not being fully healed with his own issues and him not addressing it and realizing it. his track record of 18 years is pretty steady to say hte least as well he wasn't the cheater or womanizer, he was the guy who went to work for 18 hours a day and supplied them with all they required and needed. let's just see if he can resurrect that man once again. i think we all deserve a few chances. he's got his final one and knows it. we're going to give it through the holdiays that is what i agreed to to decide if we are going to make it. unless ofcourse he does the unthinkable again and makes a bad choice then im out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 201837, member: 4514"] also i know that i have all of your support with the choice i have made. i can only say that i don't hope that it works, i hope that it all turns out however it's supposed to. i was reminded by a friend the other night in an email i never do for me either. i don't take care of me so thats another huge priority. i started very smal yesterday by removing myself once kids were in bed and actually reading a magazine. small yet a start.another very important reason for this choice is it was not done with intent to hurt me even though it did so very badly, it was him not being fully healed with his own issues and him not addressing it and realizing it. his track record of 18 years is pretty steady to say hte least as well he wasn't the cheater or womanizer, he was the guy who went to work for 18 hours a day and supplied them with all they required and needed. let's just see if he can resurrect that man once again. i think we all deserve a few chances. he's got his final one and knows it. we're going to give it through the holdiays that is what i agreed to to decide if we are going to make it. unless ofcourse he does the unthinkable again and makes a bad choice then im out. [/QUOTE]
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