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<blockquote data-quote="ski10" data-source="post: 426183" data-attributes="member: 11845"><p>Been food shopping today and we only bought what we need for the next few days, I know every single item that's in the freezer and cupboard, pathetic I know but it's what I have to do right now, my husband says.."Check her backpack every single time she leaves" don't think that's going to work<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>I know they stayed a few nights with boyfriend's sister, who "used to do meth but is not now"</p><p> </p><p>As for the whole story of yesterday, don't think tatoo's come for free..and I don't think they were only 1/2 a mile from the mall, doesn't make any sense, before I would say that doesn't make any sense and she would go crazed, accusing me of not trusting her yelling "YOU ARE STARTING AN ARGUMENT, YOU THINK I AM LYING.." along with some profanity mixed in of course, has even accused me of going through early Menopause so I'm crazy and not thinking straight...so much yelling that I just can't take it, tell her how rude she is, on an on, in the past she has even followed me in to the garage to yell at me, I went in there to get away from her mouth, she will just not stop, goes back in the house then returns to yell again, slams things and the whole time I was crying and telling her to calm down.</p><p> </p><p>When I come to think of it, whenever in the past she could not have her own way she'd never let it go, for hours and I mean hours she'd follow me to yell, she'd go in her room and I would think she'd calmed down but she'd come back out to start it all over again, even when I went to bed she'd turn the light on and start screaming at me, husband would jump up and get her to calm down, next morning it's like nothing had happened, "You know I love you mom.." gives me a kiss and off to school. I'd be in a heap.</p><p> </p><p>We took her out of 9th grade because her grades fell so much and she wasn't happy, tried homeschooling for a year, that was fun and games and she learnt nothing, got her in to an Alternative high school which we thought was going ok, she had friends she'd do things with, went to the mall, had sleepovers and they'd be laughing etc but everything wasn't ok, grades fell again and she'd just walk off school property in the middle of the day, then she dropped out.</p><p> </p><p>Anyway, I'm rambling but I can see that even before she met this lovely boyfriend we were having problems, after a storm hit she'd be ok the next day. She won't go to therapy though, has accused me of thinking she's crazy, I'm not thinking that at all.</p><p> </p><p>Not heard from her today yet but we are going for a nice walk with our pup's, it is beautiful outside <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ski10, post: 426183, member: 11845"] Been food shopping today and we only bought what we need for the next few days, I know every single item that's in the freezer and cupboard, pathetic I know but it's what I have to do right now, my husband says.."Check her backpack every single time she leaves" don't think that's going to work:) I know they stayed a few nights with boyfriend's sister, who "used to do meth but is not now" As for the whole story of yesterday, don't think tatoo's come for free..and I don't think they were only 1/2 a mile from the mall, doesn't make any sense, before I would say that doesn't make any sense and she would go crazed, accusing me of not trusting her yelling "YOU ARE STARTING AN ARGUMENT, YOU THINK I AM LYING.." along with some profanity mixed in of course, has even accused me of going through early Menopause so I'm crazy and not thinking straight...so much yelling that I just can't take it, tell her how rude she is, on an on, in the past she has even followed me in to the garage to yell at me, I went in there to get away from her mouth, she will just not stop, goes back in the house then returns to yell again, slams things and the whole time I was crying and telling her to calm down. When I come to think of it, whenever in the past she could not have her own way she'd never let it go, for hours and I mean hours she'd follow me to yell, she'd go in her room and I would think she'd calmed down but she'd come back out to start it all over again, even when I went to bed she'd turn the light on and start screaming at me, husband would jump up and get her to calm down, next morning it's like nothing had happened, "You know I love you mom.." gives me a kiss and off to school. I'd be in a heap. We took her out of 9th grade because her grades fell so much and she wasn't happy, tried homeschooling for a year, that was fun and games and she learnt nothing, got her in to an Alternative high school which we thought was going ok, she had friends she'd do things with, went to the mall, had sleepovers and they'd be laughing etc but everything wasn't ok, grades fell again and she'd just walk off school property in the middle of the day, then she dropped out. Anyway, I'm rambling but I can see that even before she met this lovely boyfriend we were having problems, after a storm hit she'd be ok the next day. She won't go to therapy though, has accused me of thinking she's crazy, I'm not thinking that at all. Not heard from her today yet but we are going for a nice walk with our pup's, it is beautiful outside :) [/QUOTE]
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