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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 374865" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You have exactly NOTHING to apologize for. I am like Shari's gma, thoughts of my family here are in my thoughts throughout the day. I am so very sorry that your friend died, and even more sorry that it has brought up all kinds of old feelings and ptsd for your husband. Even if I don't write on your posts, I think of you. Sometimes my hands don't work so typing is a pain and I don't get to post on every thread. </p><p> </p><p>Healing from this tragedy is going to be a long and painful process for the family, esp your husband. Please urge your husband to go to a grief counsellor or grief therapy group. Many funeral homes offer them free of charge. I lost a high school friend to suicide the year I went away to school. The grief therapy is what held me together that semester. Your husband will likely need to process the accident and loss of his sister all over again - MANY people need years to get to the point that they can use grief therapy - a few of the members of my group were dealing with losses in their childhood that they just stuffed away. It is surprising how much grief therapy can help - even if your husband just goes and never says a word.</p><p> </p><p>Sending LOTS of hugs and strength to you. Remember that we are always with you, whether we post or not, even if you haven't been here for a while. </p><p> </p><p>Love you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 374865, member: 1233"] You have exactly NOTHING to apologize for. I am like Shari's gma, thoughts of my family here are in my thoughts throughout the day. I am so very sorry that your friend died, and even more sorry that it has brought up all kinds of old feelings and ptsd for your husband. Even if I don't write on your posts, I think of you. Sometimes my hands don't work so typing is a pain and I don't get to post on every thread. Healing from this tragedy is going to be a long and painful process for the family, esp your husband. Please urge your husband to go to a grief counsellor or grief therapy group. Many funeral homes offer them free of charge. I lost a high school friend to suicide the year I went away to school. The grief therapy is what held me together that semester. Your husband will likely need to process the accident and loss of his sister all over again - MANY people need years to get to the point that they can use grief therapy - a few of the members of my group were dealing with losses in their childhood that they just stuffed away. It is surprising how much grief therapy can help - even if your husband just goes and never says a word. Sending LOTS of hugs and strength to you. Remember that we are always with you, whether we post or not, even if you haven't been here for a while. Love you! [/QUOTE]
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