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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 249799" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Well, I'm sorry ex is such a major piece of work. Keep killing her with kindness though, don't let her see you sweat.</p><p> </p><p>I like the idea of inviting them all to dinner, kids too, to get all the cards on the table. There is no sense in you guys doing without so that Miss Ex can have her cake and eat it too.</p><p> </p><p>As for the bedroom situation.......Well, too bad so sad. Life is what it is. You all are doing the best you can do. Maybe your husband should request all over paid alimony money be returned so perhaps he can afford a bigger place so everyone fits nicely.</p><p> </p><p>If you and husband start going at each other's throats over this.......well, let's just say that's exactly what ex is aiming for......and she's gonna keep it up and pile it higher.</p><p> </p><p>Somehow you and husband have got to work together on this. Rather stupid of her to complain about your housing and yet also complain she's worried about getting money she's not entitled to. Talk about in your face manipulation.</p><p> </p><p>Have you asked husband why he feels she's entitled to alimony now that she's remarried?? Maybe he just needs to stop and think that thru a bit. Child support is great. But it's her and her new husband's responsibility to finanacially run their household, not his. (I'm thinking she's laid a guilt trip on him and is using emotion to override his thinking)</p><p> </p><p>You need to get this settled before those wedding bells ring, and get ex properly put into her place. But don't be surprised if things don't escalate as that wedding date draws nearer. Sounds like you have a "I'm entitled to be happy, but he isn't" sort of thing going on.</p><p> </p><p>I feel for you.</p><p> </p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 249799, member: 84"] Well, I'm sorry ex is such a major piece of work. Keep killing her with kindness though, don't let her see you sweat. I like the idea of inviting them all to dinner, kids too, to get all the cards on the table. There is no sense in you guys doing without so that Miss Ex can have her cake and eat it too. As for the bedroom situation.......Well, too bad so sad. Life is what it is. You all are doing the best you can do. Maybe your husband should request all over paid alimony money be returned so perhaps he can afford a bigger place so everyone fits nicely. If you and husband start going at each other's throats over this.......well, let's just say that's exactly what ex is aiming for......and she's gonna keep it up and pile it higher. Somehow you and husband have got to work together on this. Rather stupid of her to complain about your housing and yet also complain she's worried about getting money she's not entitled to. Talk about in your face manipulation. Have you asked husband why he feels she's entitled to alimony now that she's remarried?? Maybe he just needs to stop and think that thru a bit. Child support is great. But it's her and her new husband's responsibility to finanacially run their household, not his. (I'm thinking she's laid a guilt trip on him and is using emotion to override his thinking) You need to get this settled before those wedding bells ring, and get ex properly put into her place. But don't be surprised if things don't escalate as that wedding date draws nearer. Sounds like you have a "I'm entitled to be happy, but he isn't" sort of thing going on. I feel for you. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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