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<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 249882"><p>All I can add is that second/merged families are extremely challenging. They can work but they take a lot of work.</p><p></p><p>He needs to consider setting some boundaries with how often he takes her calls. You are within your rights to ask him to make it clear to her that her input about your family, your choices together are none of her business. Unless he can draw those boundaries, it simply can't work with you. He needs to make some decisions here about what he is willing to do. He has to decide to stop giving her this power, but you might have to draw a line in the sand here, I don't see him doing it without some gentle pressure.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you are going through this. I know how hard it is.</p><p></p><p>Love, ML</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 249882"] All I can add is that second/merged families are extremely challenging. They can work but they take a lot of work. He needs to consider setting some boundaries with how often he takes her calls. You are within your rights to ask him to make it clear to her that her input about your family, your choices together are none of her business. Unless he can draw those boundaries, it simply can't work with you. He needs to make some decisions here about what he is willing to do. He has to decide to stop giving her this power, but you might have to draw a line in the sand here, I don't see him doing it without some gentle pressure. I'm sorry you are going through this. I know how hard it is. Love, ML [/QUOTE]
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