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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 249980" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>steely nailed it on the head, although i always appreciate everyone else's in put bigtime.</p><p> </p><p>i knew this going in two years ago due to the nature of the break up and i was ok with it and have worked thru some stuff with it and do get he loves me.</p><p> </p><p>yet thsi is totally different now. he seems to be turning on me which kinda svcks being we just moved into a big house together. i do believe it is very much due to his ex, he states no. yet we have had our share of problems obviously and therapy has happened and yup we need work.</p><p> </p><p>yet we moved in here together our choice, our commitment yet once his ex wasn't happy and threw a major fit and messed with his mind he began to start on me by saying all the stuff kids dont' have room, blah blah all sorts of stuff for the past day or so.</p><p> </p><p>now i'm kinda like well i do the best i can if that isnt' good enough i do not know what to tell you i give up. the control and manipulation of his ex on him has to end at some point or he can go find someone else. so i guess strangely enough we are at a climactic point in our relationship which to be honest i didnt' think would happen 3 days into new place or this way.</p><p> </p><p>she's lost it in teh past his ex, and i have taken my hits along the way yet all for the most part's been calm. yet that was when we were living in a box she liked that and hoped we'd break up yet we survived a ton of stuff and now with the house thing she lost it bad and his reaction was based off that. </p><p> </p><p>loyalty comes first and he kinda went against me now. wrong, wrong, wrong.</p><p> </p><p>i'll get 2 jobs if i have to float this place alone, he really doesn't get what i'm made out of.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 249980, member: 4514"] steely nailed it on the head, although i always appreciate everyone else's in put bigtime. i knew this going in two years ago due to the nature of the break up and i was ok with it and have worked thru some stuff with it and do get he loves me. yet thsi is totally different now. he seems to be turning on me which kinda svcks being we just moved into a big house together. i do believe it is very much due to his ex, he states no. yet we have had our share of problems obviously and therapy has happened and yup we need work. yet we moved in here together our choice, our commitment yet once his ex wasn't happy and threw a major fit and messed with his mind he began to start on me by saying all the stuff kids dont' have room, blah blah all sorts of stuff for the past day or so. now i'm kinda like well i do the best i can if that isnt' good enough i do not know what to tell you i give up. the control and manipulation of his ex on him has to end at some point or he can go find someone else. so i guess strangely enough we are at a climactic point in our relationship which to be honest i didnt' think would happen 3 days into new place or this way. she's lost it in teh past his ex, and i have taken my hits along the way yet all for the most part's been calm. yet that was when we were living in a box she liked that and hoped we'd break up yet we survived a ton of stuff and now with the house thing she lost it bad and his reaction was based off that. loyalty comes first and he kinda went against me now. wrong, wrong, wrong. i'll get 2 jobs if i have to float this place alone, he really doesn't get what i'm made out of. [/QUOTE]
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