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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 140149"><p>Way to go, Nichole! I'm glad she's finally starting to see things for how they are. </p><p></p><p>As far as back child support, unless they've changed the law there's nothing to be done. He can only be ordered to pay support from the day there is a court order in place to pay it. IOW, if there was no court order for support for the last 2 years, they can't do anything. If she really wants to pursue that she'll probably have to get her own attorney and it would be expensive. CSE is only going to go from the time of the order forward. </p><p></p><p>As far as claiming Aubrey on tax return, he would have to have that special IRS form from Nichole. I forget which one it is. I always claim the kids. easy child's dad is supposed to claim him based on our divorce agreement, but he was behind for a while and he didn't believe me when I told him he needed that form. So, he was claiming easy child for a while, too. IRS didn't care what our divorce agreement said, he had to pay all that back. I refused to give him that form allowing him to claim easy child because the amount of child support he pays is so pathetic. Didn't even come close to covering 50% of actual cost to support easy child.</p><p></p><p>I agree; it will be interesting to see boyfriend's true colors. But, will you really be surprised? I think he's going to be more upset that Nichole is finally going against him - questioning him - than he is about paying support. I think he likes it that he can tell Nichole what to do. If she starts gaining some independence, he's going to feel threatened. If he's anything like my ex, he'll carry on and make an <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> out of himself, but he won't actually pursue anything with Aubrey. He doesn't want the responsibility.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 140149"] Way to go, Nichole! I'm glad she's finally starting to see things for how they are. As far as back child support, unless they've changed the law there's nothing to be done. He can only be ordered to pay support from the day there is a court order in place to pay it. IOW, if there was no court order for support for the last 2 years, they can't do anything. If she really wants to pursue that she'll probably have to get her own attorney and it would be expensive. CSE is only going to go from the time of the order forward. As far as claiming Aubrey on tax return, he would have to have that special IRS form from Nichole. I forget which one it is. I always claim the kids. easy child's dad is supposed to claim him based on our divorce agreement, but he was behind for a while and he didn't believe me when I told him he needed that form. So, he was claiming easy child for a while, too. IRS didn't care what our divorce agreement said, he had to pay all that back. I refused to give him that form allowing him to claim easy child because the amount of child support he pays is so pathetic. Didn't even come close to covering 50% of actual cost to support easy child. I agree; it will be interesting to see boyfriend's true colors. But, will you really be surprised? I think he's going to be more upset that Nichole is finally going against him - questioning him - than he is about paying support. I think he likes it that he can tell Nichole what to do. If she starts gaining some independence, he's going to feel threatened. If he's anything like my ex, he'll carry on and make an :censored2: out of himself, but he won't actually pursue anything with Aubrey. He doesn't want the responsibility. [/QUOTE]
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