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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 140565"><p>Lisa - </p><p></p><p>I didn't word that well. I wasn't trying to imply that Nichole wasn't telling you. I just wondered if she got a little push from DJFS. </p><p></p><p>When I signed up my kids for medicaid in October, they didn't do anything about child support. (I had dropped the child support case against easy child's dad in 2005 or 2006 because the state changed all the interstate case numbers and Georgia couldn't get it right. It was delaying my payment by about 6 weeks and every month it was a dozen phone calls to get it straightened out.) But, when I applied for medicaid, they started it again (there was a gap in the time because I had to get a copy of my birth certificate). The child support interstate caseworker called me because she knew how much of a jerk my ex has been and wanted to give me a heads up. She told me it was because I applied and that while technically anytime there is an application for medicaid and there is a child support issue it's supposed to be handled through them, they don't push it if only the kids are covered because they're not going to deny coverage to children. They would, however, deny my coverage if I didn't send the case back through CSE. I even made her give me the section of the Revised Code because I knew my ex was going to make a stink. Which he did. At least he's predictable.</p><p></p><p>Nichole's relationship with her boyfriend reminds me so much of mine with ex #1. I feel a kinship of sorts with Nichole because I just feel like I can call the next move, Know what I mean?? I'm rooting for her all the time and I do believe that she is going to 'outgrow' boyfriend. She's growing up, maturing. He's not. Or so it seems. </p><p></p><p>Nichole is starting to see the light much sooner than I did, too. Little steps. But, I believe, eventually those little steps will lead her away from boyfriend. And onto someone that deserves her and Aubrey.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 140565"] Lisa - I didn't word that well. I wasn't trying to imply that Nichole wasn't telling you. I just wondered if she got a little push from DJFS. When I signed up my kids for medicaid in October, they didn't do anything about child support. (I had dropped the child support case against easy child's dad in 2005 or 2006 because the state changed all the interstate case numbers and Georgia couldn't get it right. It was delaying my payment by about 6 weeks and every month it was a dozen phone calls to get it straightened out.) But, when I applied for medicaid, they started it again (there was a gap in the time because I had to get a copy of my birth certificate). The child support interstate caseworker called me because she knew how much of a jerk my ex has been and wanted to give me a heads up. She told me it was because I applied and that while technically anytime there is an application for medicaid and there is a child support issue it's supposed to be handled through them, they don't push it if only the kids are covered because they're not going to deny coverage to children. They would, however, deny my coverage if I didn't send the case back through CSE. I even made her give me the section of the Revised Code because I knew my ex was going to make a stink. Which he did. At least he's predictable. Nichole's relationship with her boyfriend reminds me so much of mine with ex #1. I feel a kinship of sorts with Nichole because I just feel like I can call the next move, Know what I mean?? I'm rooting for her all the time and I do believe that she is going to 'outgrow' boyfriend. She's growing up, maturing. He's not. Or so it seems. Nichole is starting to see the light much sooner than I did, too. Little steps. But, I believe, eventually those little steps will lead her away from boyfriend. And onto someone that deserves her and Aubrey. [/QUOTE]
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