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<blockquote data-quote="rita" data-source="post: 567274" data-attributes="member: 124"><p>Hi Addie , yes I have many expectations of J more than you can imagine, good, bad, right or wrong for the meanwhile it is what it is. He has shown growth and strength in spite of everything the last few years and the relapse made me nutz. Financially things went to hell in a handbasket when husband passed and bottom line is all the precautions and planning husband and I had taken care to do were for naught, leaving me in a terrible financial position. I guess you cannot plan for every situation no matter how careful you are. J is responsible for 1/2 the financial load here in the house and until it sells we are here together. Tried some roomates and truly do not want to go that route again. He is going back to addiction counselling his idea and has kept his word about not using. We have discussed at length relapse and what the triggers, emotional state were and what coping skills could he have employed to avoid this. Alll I can be at this point is a sounding board.You are right we are attached; once again it might not be the healthiest way to live but we have each other and it is what it is. I could not mentally survive another loss. Interesting to hear about Jess and am wondering about Chrissy how is she? Quite amazing for me to see so many here still Ephchap, Janet, Nancy,Abby and so many others that is wonderful and I am so glad. I have to do searching and catch up on the current situation of all. Joes mom does anyone ever hear from her still, never saw her name in my quick look. Often wondered how Ant made out. Hope I can add here, for our area Heroin is currently making a huge return and everyday our client list grows. Addiction is the cruelest disease, other diseases may rob you physically, devastate you emotionally, and psychologically affect you in ways unimaginable but no other disease robs your very soul and allows one to compromise ones own core values. </p><p>peace rita</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rita, post: 567274, member: 124"] Hi Addie , yes I have many expectations of J more than you can imagine, good, bad, right or wrong for the meanwhile it is what it is. He has shown growth and strength in spite of everything the last few years and the relapse made me nutz. Financially things went to hell in a handbasket when husband passed and bottom line is all the precautions and planning husband and I had taken care to do were for naught, leaving me in a terrible financial position. I guess you cannot plan for every situation no matter how careful you are. J is responsible for 1/2 the financial load here in the house and until it sells we are here together. Tried some roomates and truly do not want to go that route again. He is going back to addiction counselling his idea and has kept his word about not using. We have discussed at length relapse and what the triggers, emotional state were and what coping skills could he have employed to avoid this. Alll I can be at this point is a sounding board.You are right we are attached; once again it might not be the healthiest way to live but we have each other and it is what it is. I could not mentally survive another loss. Interesting to hear about Jess and am wondering about Chrissy how is she? Quite amazing for me to see so many here still Ephchap, Janet, Nancy,Abby and so many others that is wonderful and I am so glad. I have to do searching and catch up on the current situation of all. Joes mom does anyone ever hear from her still, never saw her name in my quick look. Often wondered how Ant made out. Hope I can add here, for our area Heroin is currently making a huge return and everyday our client list grows. Addiction is the cruelest disease, other diseases may rob you physically, devastate you emotionally, and psychologically affect you in ways unimaginable but no other disease robs your very soul and allows one to compromise ones own core values. peace rita [/QUOTE]
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