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The Ossy Honeymoon is over. OMG.
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 587027" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Does her employer do direct deposit of her wages? If they do then a condition for her living there could be that she enroll in that and that she put you on her checking acount as a joint holder and the minute her check is deposited you will go in and transfer that money into your account.</p><p></p><p>We had to do much the same with difficult child as a condition for helping her get out of financial ruin. She is now out of debt and paying her bills on time. But we have to keep a very close watch on it and I have her passwords to all her utilities and bank account so I can check her progress. I know we shouldn't have to do that but neither of our difficult children have the necessary tools to do this on their own at this point.</p><p></p><p>She has a job, she should be paying her rent. If ex cashes her check he shold go one step further and make sure she gives him all her expenses to give to you. I don't understand his reasoning there but since he won't you need to find another way to make sure she pays rent.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 587027, member: 59"] Does her employer do direct deposit of her wages? If they do then a condition for her living there could be that she enroll in that and that she put you on her checking acount as a joint holder and the minute her check is deposited you will go in and transfer that money into your account. We had to do much the same with difficult child as a condition for helping her get out of financial ruin. She is now out of debt and paying her bills on time. But we have to keep a very close watch on it and I have her passwords to all her utilities and bank account so I can check her progress. I know we shouldn't have to do that but neither of our difficult children have the necessary tools to do this on their own at this point. She has a job, she should be paying her rent. If ex cashes her check he shold go one step further and make sure she gives him all her expenses to give to you. I don't understand his reasoning there but since he won't you need to find another way to make sure she pays rent. [/QUOTE]
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