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The Ossy Honeymoon is over. OMG.
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<blockquote data-quote="welcometowitsend" data-source="post: 587032" data-attributes="member: 14356"><p>Dash - I know you are not ready to put difficult child out yet. I totally get that. You have to be ready to make that step and it's a very difficult step to get to. </p><p></p><p>I agree with what everyone else has said - your house, your rules and difficult child needs to follow them. I think you should follow up with Ossy and tell him that he either collects the rent out of the paycheques he is cashing or he might find difficult child dumped on his doorstep with all her belongings in the VERY near future. Then he'll be sure to collect the rent as it will be for him. He is a piece of work and I'm sorry you have to deal with him too on top of everything else. </p><p></p><p>He does not see through her lies and manipulation. He is still believing what comes out of her mouth and until that changes he probably will side with her and see you as the bad guy. For him to believe from difficult child that your rules 'keep changing' proves that to me right away. Write up a contract with her, make her sign it and give Ossy a copy. If you already have a contract, take a photocopy and give it to him so he can see her lies and manipulation tactics. He really is an ostrich, isn't he? </p><p></p><p>Go ahead and cry, lay on the couch the whole day and be sad - it is better to get those feelings out and let them go than to hold them in and be bottled up. And know that every one of us is wrapping an arm around you to comfort you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="welcometowitsend, post: 587032, member: 14356"] Dash - I know you are not ready to put difficult child out yet. I totally get that. You have to be ready to make that step and it's a very difficult step to get to. I agree with what everyone else has said - your house, your rules and difficult child needs to follow them. I think you should follow up with Ossy and tell him that he either collects the rent out of the paycheques he is cashing or he might find difficult child dumped on his doorstep with all her belongings in the VERY near future. Then he'll be sure to collect the rent as it will be for him. He is a piece of work and I'm sorry you have to deal with him too on top of everything else. He does not see through her lies and manipulation. He is still believing what comes out of her mouth and until that changes he probably will side with her and see you as the bad guy. For him to believe from difficult child that your rules 'keep changing' proves that to me right away. Write up a contract with her, make her sign it and give Ossy a copy. If you already have a contract, take a photocopy and give it to him so he can see her lies and manipulation tactics. He really is an ostrich, isn't he? Go ahead and cry, lay on the couch the whole day and be sad - it is better to get those feelings out and let them go than to hold them in and be bottled up. And know that every one of us is wrapping an arm around you to comfort you. [/QUOTE]
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