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The perfect daughter turned disrespectful nymphomaniac!
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 518212"><p>This might sound weird, but one of the things that bothered me the most about your post is that I believe you said your huband also thinks your psychotic. In what way? Is he thinking that you worry too much about your daughter?</p><p>Did she complete her degree? I guess that is good, in a way. But, she has no right to put you down. That is rude, disrespectful, wrong and inappropriate. PERIOD. Some things to consider:</p><p>You might consider reading literature about detaching, setting boundaries and/or going to a Codependent Anonymous Group. This type of "stuff" might sound weird or difficult to you, but sounds like she is a young adult and its time for you to detach from her craziness. It is very kind of you to try to help supply necessities for the grandchildren and perhaps you can still provide some small needed items now and again. But beyond that NO WAY. Your daughter is not appreciative and is very unkind. SAVE YOURSELF. It is a kick in the teeth/a blow to your self esteem to be treated in this horrible manner. It is NOT your fault that she has made these hideous choices and it only makes things worse for you to get so deeply involved. I would back off BIG TIME. Let her know that you love her and your door is open if she feels she can have an adult and polite conversation with you. It is hard as hexk and hurts like hexk, but don't stick around and be treated in such a hideous manner. Find good friends and relatives who respect you and treat you well and you do what you can to be good to those people. Keep your daughter in your prayers, perhaps provide a little fort he grandkids and keep hope on the back burner. In the mean time...go out and rediscover what you like to do and find good people to do it with.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 518212"] This might sound weird, but one of the things that bothered me the most about your post is that I believe you said your huband also thinks your psychotic. In what way? Is he thinking that you worry too much about your daughter? Did she complete her degree? I guess that is good, in a way. But, she has no right to put you down. That is rude, disrespectful, wrong and inappropriate. PERIOD. Some things to consider: You might consider reading literature about detaching, setting boundaries and/or going to a Codependent Anonymous Group. This type of "stuff" might sound weird or difficult to you, but sounds like she is a young adult and its time for you to detach from her craziness. It is very kind of you to try to help supply necessities for the grandchildren and perhaps you can still provide some small needed items now and again. But beyond that NO WAY. Your daughter is not appreciative and is very unkind. SAVE YOURSELF. It is a kick in the teeth/a blow to your self esteem to be treated in this horrible manner. It is NOT your fault that she has made these hideous choices and it only makes things worse for you to get so deeply involved. I would back off BIG TIME. Let her know that you love her and your door is open if she feels she can have an adult and polite conversation with you. It is hard as hexk and hurts like hexk, but don't stick around and be treated in such a hideous manner. Find good friends and relatives who respect you and treat you well and you do what you can to be good to those people. Keep your daughter in your prayers, perhaps provide a little fort he grandkids and keep hope on the back burner. In the mean time...go out and rediscover what you like to do and find good people to do it with. [/QUOTE]
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