J is headed to my parent's house for a week or two after I called DHR in an effort to give him up for foster care. I get a break! Whee! This is the newest development at our house - a door that we keep locked so J won't steal from us or eat all the food at night and end up in a diabetic coma. http://2.BiPolar (BP).blogspot.com/-lHc79TwiiIo/T8d04_XocfI/AAAAAAAAAQg/P5xKp_dv8NE/s1600/J8.jpg That is how it did look. J took scissors and/or a knife to it and cut the screen off. But it still works just fine because I thought he would do that and I installed a double keyed deadbolt so he can't get out. Things are going nicely - husband and I read the book "5 love languages" and it really helped our marriage. We are planning on a vacation this Fall - just the two of us! And we are trying a behavior chart with J - crazy, I know, but it will work until he gets tired of the rewards or thinks I owe him a reward for doing any ding-dangety thing at all. It will help for a while, anyway. One day at a time is all I can handle.