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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 289227" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>TM, it's difficult when we feel unattractive. Everything seems to tear at us.</p><p>I have been watching "What Not To Wear" since I have very little fashion sense in relationship to myself. All I see is what is wrong. It has helped to really open up my mind and change the internal dialogue. </p><p></p><p>I'm trying hard to not fight my curves anymore. I'm taking the time to find nice clothes that are appropriate for me instead of just buying what's on sale. </p><p>I invested in a better level of haircut. </p><p></p><p>No one at the 25 yr reunion is looking like they did at 18. As far as I can tell very few people remember spouses and how they looked at the last reunion. They are too busy hiding their own bald spots, paunches, vericose veins. </p><p></p><p>Of course, we want our mates to be the one who still sees us as beautiful and sharply dressed. Sometimes they goof up or are oblivious. I'm glad he made you feel included. Sounds like a good guy. </p><p></p><p>I have to nudge husband to remember to introduce me. Duh! He is clueless at times. We go to many functions where I know no one. It's part of the job. In the end, most people are very nice. </p><p></p><p>I'm sure you looked adorable and smart. Glad you had fun.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 289227, member: 3"] TM, it's difficult when we feel unattractive. Everything seems to tear at us. I have been watching "What Not To Wear" since I have very little fashion sense in relationship to myself. All I see is what is wrong. It has helped to really open up my mind and change the internal dialogue. I'm trying hard to not fight my curves anymore. I'm taking the time to find nice clothes that are appropriate for me instead of just buying what's on sale. I invested in a better level of haircut. No one at the 25 yr reunion is looking like they did at 18. As far as I can tell very few people remember spouses and how they looked at the last reunion. They are too busy hiding their own bald spots, paunches, vericose veins. Of course, we want our mates to be the one who still sees us as beautiful and sharply dressed. Sometimes they goof up or are oblivious. I'm glad he made you feel included. Sounds like a good guy. I have to nudge husband to remember to introduce me. Duh! He is clueless at times. We go to many functions where I know no one. It's part of the job. In the end, most people are very nice. I'm sure you looked adorable and smart. Glad you had fun. [/QUOTE]
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