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Therapy session and what hub and I are doing
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 396008" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Don't forget the flip side of all this for all three of them - hub, Jumper and Sonic. Unconditional praise when they do something they should. Never forget to say, "Thank you for doing that job without fuss. I really appreciated that and it helped me a lot." Never link your praise to criticism - never say, "Thanks for doing that washing up at last, I only had to ask you four times..." or "I'm glad you finally did what I asked you to. Why can't you be like that all the time?"</p><p></p><p>When you thank someone or praise someone, keep ti simple and separated from anything else. it also models that behaviour for the others and they are more likely to thank you, unconditionally and without prompting.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 396008, member: 1991"] Don't forget the flip side of all this for all three of them - hub, Jumper and Sonic. Unconditional praise when they do something they should. Never forget to say, "Thank you for doing that job without fuss. I really appreciated that and it helped me a lot." Never link your praise to criticism - never say, "Thanks for doing that washing up at last, I only had to ask you four times..." or "I'm glad you finally did what I asked you to. Why can't you be like that all the time?" When you thank someone or praise someone, keep ti simple and separated from anything else. it also models that behaviour for the others and they are more likely to thank you, unconditionally and without prompting. Marg [/QUOTE]
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