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THEY didn't call - THEY never said sorry
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 143682" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Thanks all - </p><p></p><p>(Um Abbey - ROFLMAO) Girl - would have loved to have a picture of that! Maybe you should have made YOUR video. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Well - update - </p><p></p><p>11:15 Dude shows up. Walks in - no hug no greeting - just peeved friend is not here. </p><p></p><p>I tell him friend called at 9:15 - and said yawning he was sleeping in - and doesn't like to drive in the rain. </p><p></p><p>I endure the fallout of WHAT am I going to do NOW.....(I have no idea but I've been up since 6:30 and I'm going to 'puter, finish my bedding in the laundry - hang up a few things) and I went on about my business - but locked all the doors behind me - SNOOP BAGGY DRAWERS was not going to have a field day in my house - and THAT made him angry. Sorry Charlie - you steal you snoop and this is how it's going to be until you make me believe otherwise - like 35 and in your own home. </p><p></p><p>So at 11:45 he comes in and flops down and states he's bored. WOULD I like to TAKE HIM shopping? WE could go do fun stuff like we used to. I was so angry - NOW I AM AN OPTION B?? NOPE. So I simply said "No.</p><p></p><p>That was greeting with - WHYYYYYYYYY? (I hate when boys whine it's worse than girls) and I said "Because we'll no sooner get to the places I would go IF I wanted to go - and we'd get a call that your friend was here and you would want me to RUN home - lickity split - and I'm not going to upset myself further - then added - YOU STILL haven't said sorry for making me get up while you slept in." So Dude says - "well we could take the cell and when he comes Dad could do this and call and that and Dad this..." and I said "DAD is NOT going to do anything = DO NOT INVOLVE HIM IN YOUR PLANS WITHOUT ASKING PERIOD." </p><p></p><p>So then typical teen storms off - and flops down in another chair - and beings to mumble how he can't believe I yelled at his friend when he called. I did not yell - I told an 18 year old boy he was irresponsible and invaded on my day and it won't happen again. </p><p></p><p>So I looked at the clock and pacing Dude and I said - Well at 12:15 I think you should find a way home - I don't think he's coming, it's still raining. And so he swipes all the stuff off the table (little things I got him to help him out) and says WELL COME ON - YOU HAVE TO TAKE ME HOME. Then I hear him calling the TFP to see if they are going out to eat and can he go too. </p><p></p><p>- I was making Knoephella Soup, Corn bread - and strawberry shortcake - that was not good enough. </p><p></p><p>So we took him home - but not until DF had a come to Pappa meeting about how he treats his Mother like crud. We dropped him off - I got no thank you, no hug - nothing - he just walked away. </p><p></p><p>SO for a while anyway - I'm not going to be available. Not by phone, not in person - I'm tired of being treated like this. typical teen yes - but the rudeness level? After I've done NOTHING but help him? Nah - I'm getting closer to being done. </p><p></p><p>I told DF today - apparently I do not learn with time - I learn with experiences. The more bad experiences I have - the more distant I want to be from this all. If it were a matter of learning in "time" I would have handed him back at birth. lol </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Thanks for listening</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 143682, member: 4964"] Thanks all - (Um Abbey - ROFLMAO) Girl - would have loved to have a picture of that! Maybe you should have made YOUR video. Well - update - 11:15 Dude shows up. Walks in - no hug no greeting - just peeved friend is not here. I tell him friend called at 9:15 - and said yawning he was sleeping in - and doesn't like to drive in the rain. I endure the fallout of WHAT am I going to do NOW.....(I have no idea but I've been up since 6:30 and I'm going to 'puter, finish my bedding in the laundry - hang up a few things) and I went on about my business - but locked all the doors behind me - SNOOP BAGGY DRAWERS was not going to have a field day in my house - and THAT made him angry. Sorry Charlie - you steal you snoop and this is how it's going to be until you make me believe otherwise - like 35 and in your own home. So at 11:45 he comes in and flops down and states he's bored. WOULD I like to TAKE HIM shopping? WE could go do fun stuff like we used to. I was so angry - NOW I AM AN OPTION B?? NOPE. So I simply said "No. That was greeting with - WHYYYYYYYYY? (I hate when boys whine it's worse than girls) and I said "Because we'll no sooner get to the places I would go IF I wanted to go - and we'd get a call that your friend was here and you would want me to RUN home - lickity split - and I'm not going to upset myself further - then added - YOU STILL haven't said sorry for making me get up while you slept in." So Dude says - "well we could take the cell and when he comes Dad could do this and call and that and Dad this..." and I said "DAD is NOT going to do anything = DO NOT INVOLVE HIM IN YOUR PLANS WITHOUT ASKING PERIOD." So then typical teen storms off - and flops down in another chair - and beings to mumble how he can't believe I yelled at his friend when he called. I did not yell - I told an 18 year old boy he was irresponsible and invaded on my day and it won't happen again. So I looked at the clock and pacing Dude and I said - Well at 12:15 I think you should find a way home - I don't think he's coming, it's still raining. And so he swipes all the stuff off the table (little things I got him to help him out) and says WELL COME ON - YOU HAVE TO TAKE ME HOME. Then I hear him calling the TFP to see if they are going out to eat and can he go too. - I was making Knoephella Soup, Corn bread - and strawberry shortcake - that was not good enough. So we took him home - but not until DF had a come to Pappa meeting about how he treats his Mother like crud. We dropped him off - I got no thank you, no hug - nothing - he just walked away. SO for a while anyway - I'm not going to be available. Not by phone, not in person - I'm tired of being treated like this. typical teen yes - but the rudeness level? After I've done NOTHING but help him? Nah - I'm getting closer to being done. I told DF today - apparently I do not learn with time - I learn with experiences. The more bad experiences I have - the more distant I want to be from this all. If it were a matter of learning in "time" I would have handed him back at birth. lol Hugs Thanks for listening [/QUOTE]
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