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<blockquote data-quote="saving grace" data-source="post: 77833" data-attributes="member: 1538"><p>Marg... In earlier posts I mentioned that I had many different thoughts and feelings going through my head, I had all the thoughts you refer to, Was I projecting? yes I was Was I inserting my own feelings of infertility in this situation? yes I was. After the few days that I had to toss around all those feelings I ended up where I was last night when I posted. The decision is abortion, 2nd trimester abortion and in my unbiased opinion its wrong. She is too far along to abort a healthy baby. If they took the test a week or 2 later there would be no decision, she would have to carry. I recognize that I need time, I undertand this is her life and her choice but I cant, right now get past my disappointment in her and my son, more so her because my son told me he would step up but she didnt want to and that it was her body and her choice. I get that, I really do. </p><p></p><p>They are there today, right now, as week speak. I am sick, I knew if I talked to her last night I would have made it worse for her, I didnt want to do that to her, I called the Mom, she didnt return my call, I mentioned to my son that I called and he said she was working and that she would probably return my call when she got hom, he was mad I called. </p><p></p><p>I think what my son wanted was for me to talk to her and make her feel better, they want me to say I'm not mad and that it's ok. I cant say that. I cant make it better for them, they chose it they have to feel it. </p><p></p><p>I did tell my son that this will haunt them and that I didnt feel that their relationship would survive this. </p><p></p><p>Pray for them, pray for this baby. Pray I can find forgivness.</p><p></p><p>Thank you Thank you all so much for this, your words are keeping me grounded, they are very powerful and I appreciate every single one</p><p></p><p>Grace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="saving grace, post: 77833, member: 1538"] Marg... In earlier posts I mentioned that I had many different thoughts and feelings going through my head, I had all the thoughts you refer to, Was I projecting? yes I was Was I inserting my own feelings of infertility in this situation? yes I was. After the few days that I had to toss around all those feelings I ended up where I was last night when I posted. The decision is abortion, 2nd trimester abortion and in my unbiased opinion its wrong. She is too far along to abort a healthy baby. If they took the test a week or 2 later there would be no decision, she would have to carry. I recognize that I need time, I undertand this is her life and her choice but I cant, right now get past my disappointment in her and my son, more so her because my son told me he would step up but she didnt want to and that it was her body and her choice. I get that, I really do. They are there today, right now, as week speak. I am sick, I knew if I talked to her last night I would have made it worse for her, I didnt want to do that to her, I called the Mom, she didnt return my call, I mentioned to my son that I called and he said she was working and that she would probably return my call when she got hom, he was mad I called. I think what my son wanted was for me to talk to her and make her feel better, they want me to say I'm not mad and that it's ok. I cant say that. I cant make it better for them, they chose it they have to feel it. I did tell my son that this will haunt them and that I didnt feel that their relationship would survive this. Pray for them, pray for this baby. Pray I can find forgivness. Thank you Thank you all so much for this, your words are keeping me grounded, they are very powerful and I appreciate every single one Grace [/QUOTE]
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