Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
This cant be happening... I need your support
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 77834" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>It is so sad because they are really both children themselves, making such an adult decision. I know your difficult child is 21, but being a true difficult child, he's not capable of acting like one. </p><p></p><p>These are decisions that may or may not haunt them for the rest of their lives. If they truley feel they are doing the right thing, then they will be able to get past this at some point in there lives. I'm not saying it's something they will ever forget, but they can learn to live with it. </p><p></p><p>I know your heart is hurting and this is not what you would have chosen, but I hope one day you can look at both of them, especially your son, and come to some kind of terms with all of this.</p><p></p><p>You are so entitled to everything you are feeling. Every thought, every feeling, you own them and they are yours. Nobody can take that away from you. Your difficult child and his girlfriend are also entitled to their every thought and feeling also, and hopefully someday you can all come to terms with this, together. </p><p></p><p>Here is a huge ((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))).</p><p></p><p>Hope it makes your day a little easier.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 77834, member: 2442"] It is so sad because they are really both children themselves, making such an adult decision. I know your difficult child is 21, but being a true difficult child, he's not capable of acting like one. These are decisions that may or may not haunt them for the rest of their lives. If they truley feel they are doing the right thing, then they will be able to get past this at some point in there lives. I'm not saying it's something they will ever forget, but they can learn to live with it. I know your heart is hurting and this is not what you would have chosen, but I hope one day you can look at both of them, especially your son, and come to some kind of terms with all of this. You are so entitled to everything you are feeling. Every thought, every feeling, you own them and they are yours. Nobody can take that away from you. Your difficult child and his girlfriend are also entitled to their every thought and feeling also, and hopefully someday you can all come to terms with this, together. Here is a huge ((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))). Hope it makes your day a little easier. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
This cant be happening... I need your support
Top