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<blockquote data-quote="aeroeng" data-source="post: 262998" data-attributes="member: 6557"><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">eekysign: How/when did your easy child end up in the role of peacemaker for the family? Or is this just a one-off sort of situation, and this is unusual behavior for easy child, too?</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">easy child is the most mature and calm child and always has been. When he was 5 several different people independently referred to him as an "old sole" - a child with an unusually mature approach and wisdom. He has always cared for all people, and has always gone out of his way to help people. He is a pacifist in every way. In middle school more then once other kids would just punch him. I believe this was because he is the tallest kid in the school, and does not hit back. He does not believe in hitting back. I believe the other kids felt, "if I can take down the biggest kid then I must be tough", and easy child was a safe target because he never hit back. This is why easy child is now in a private Catholic school.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">He is not always the peacemaker. When it comes to difficult child his main approach is to go someplace different. But difficult child in training is different. easy child really wants to help him. easy child also seems to be able withstand more abuse without internalizing it. difficult child insults all of us. This damages difficult child in training's self image, but easy child just does not pay attention to it. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'">But yes your concerns are real ones. Any advice on what I can do about it? What do you wish your parents had done?</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #333333">Midwest Mom: How do I find someone that can do a neuropsychologist evaluation?</span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="aeroeng, post: 262998, member: 6557"] [COLOR=#333333][FONT=Verdana]eekysign: How/when did your easy child end up in the role of peacemaker for the family? Or is this just a one-off sort of situation, and this is unusual behavior for easy child, too?[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#333333][FONT=Verdana]easy child is the most mature and calm child and always has been. When he was 5 several different people independently referred to him as an "old sole" - a child with an unusually mature approach and wisdom. He has always cared for all people, and has always gone out of his way to help people. He is a pacifist in every way. In middle school more then once other kids would just punch him. I believe this was because he is the tallest kid in the school, and does not hit back. He does not believe in hitting back. I believe the other kids felt, "if I can take down the biggest kid then I must be tough", and easy child was a safe target because he never hit back. This is why easy child is now in a private Catholic school.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#333333][FONT=Verdana]He is not always the peacemaker. When it comes to difficult child his main approach is to go someplace different. But difficult child in training is different. easy child really wants to help him. easy child also seems to be able withstand more abuse without internalizing it. difficult child insults all of us. This damages difficult child in training's self image, but easy child just does not pay attention to it. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#333333][FONT=Verdana]But yes your concerns are real ones. Any advice on what I can do about it? What do you wish your parents had done?[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#333333][/COLOR] [COLOR=#333333]Midwest Mom: How do I find someone that can do a neuropsychologist evaluation?[/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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