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<blockquote data-quote="seekinghope" data-source="post: 178090" data-attributes="member: 5528"><p>Thanks to everyone for being there.</p><p>He is at his dad's in Brooklyn.</p><p>I have yet to contact the RCT or the police but my ex phoned the detective in his building and I spoke to the PINS officer on my end. He and the probation officer are suppose to be at my house Mon. morning. Anyone who read my previous posts knows that technically my son is not officially on probation or on PINS because he was at the Phos and RCT before this so these actions were put on hold.</p><p></p><p>This has been the worst weekend of my life besides the time my father and brother passed away.</p><p></p><p>Now here is what's happening...</p><p>My ex lives in Brooklyn in a studio apart. He is in a good section. However, walk for 5 minutes in any direction and the crime and drugs rates are astronomical. I feel he has no chance there. His father has never been the custodial parent. He lasted 7 days the last time we tried this.</p><p>My husband does not want to take him back. He is afraid he and my son will eventually wind-up in a physical confrontation. He actually has rules and enforces them. He will not be manipulated and the anger in my son last time was scary.That is part of why he went to the phos to keep him safe and others safe. He also says that nothing we have tried has gotten through to this kid.</p><p>What brought my husband to take this drastic measure is this... my son called his dad the night he went A-Wall; Thurs. night, eventually my ex convinced him to get into the car and come to his apt. My son who should be scared out of his wits and should be doing anything his dad says is arguing with him. Hi's dad had to pay almost $500.00 to the cab comp. that took him there; another story for another time, call the detective in his building, leave work and drive around for hours looking for him. When they get to the apartment my son refuses to go upstairs to go to sleep. He wants to sleep in the car. His dad after hours and late into the night gives-up and goes upstairs to bed. Same thing repeated last night, wants to sleep in the car. His dad tells him Fri. to stay inside the apartment because all the precincts have not been notified and he is still a missing person and my son spent all day outside.</p><p></p><p>So here I am this morning happy my son is alive and so unhappy. I have to choose between letting my son stay there, leaving my husband, I don't know what other options I have. I don't know what to do.</p><p></p><p>But I want to thank everyone for posting their support, it helps because I feel I am not alone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="seekinghope, post: 178090, member: 5528"] Thanks to everyone for being there. He is at his dad's in Brooklyn. I have yet to contact the RCT or the police but my ex phoned the detective in his building and I spoke to the PINS officer on my end. He and the probation officer are suppose to be at my house Mon. morning. Anyone who read my previous posts knows that technically my son is not officially on probation or on PINS because he was at the Phos and RCT before this so these actions were put on hold. This has been the worst weekend of my life besides the time my father and brother passed away. Now here is what's happening... My ex lives in Brooklyn in a studio apart. He is in a good section. However, walk for 5 minutes in any direction and the crime and drugs rates are astronomical. I feel he has no chance there. His father has never been the custodial parent. He lasted 7 days the last time we tried this. My husband does not want to take him back. He is afraid he and my son will eventually wind-up in a physical confrontation. He actually has rules and enforces them. He will not be manipulated and the anger in my son last time was scary.That is part of why he went to the phos to keep him safe and others safe. He also says that nothing we have tried has gotten through to this kid. What brought my husband to take this drastic measure is this... my son called his dad the night he went A-Wall; Thurs. night, eventually my ex convinced him to get into the car and come to his apt. My son who should be scared out of his wits and should be doing anything his dad says is arguing with him. Hi's dad had to pay almost $500.00 to the cab comp. that took him there; another story for another time, call the detective in his building, leave work and drive around for hours looking for him. When they get to the apartment my son refuses to go upstairs to go to sleep. He wants to sleep in the car. His dad after hours and late into the night gives-up and goes upstairs to bed. Same thing repeated last night, wants to sleep in the car. His dad tells him Fri. to stay inside the apartment because all the precincts have not been notified and he is still a missing person and my son spent all day outside. So here I am this morning happy my son is alive and so unhappy. I have to choose between letting my son stay there, leaving my husband, I don't know what other options I have. I don't know what to do. But I want to thank everyone for posting their support, it helps because I feel I am not alone. [/QUOTE]
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