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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 434496" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>3S, I understand. I think lack of mother love in early childhood is a wound that leaves an indelible print and that is emotionally extremely hard to shift. However much you rationally understand that it wasn't to do with you; this just seems to be the way we are wired.</p><p>I think there is some mileage in opening yourself to compassion, if that is the word, for your mother, in the sense that you see her lack of love, and the reasons to do with her that must have lain behind it, and allow it to be, and see your pain and allow it to be. Allow the tears to flow. We can't bypass the pain, nor should we even try, really. You suffer because you have a human heart. What is worse is not to suffer, to block off from feelings of pain. </p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 434496, member: 11227"] 3S, I understand. I think lack of mother love in early childhood is a wound that leaves an indelible print and that is emotionally extremely hard to shift. However much you rationally understand that it wasn't to do with you; this just seems to be the way we are wired. I think there is some mileage in opening yourself to compassion, if that is the word, for your mother, in the sense that you see her lack of love, and the reasons to do with her that must have lain behind it, and allow it to be, and see your pain and allow it to be. Allow the tears to flow. We can't bypass the pain, nor should we even try, really. You suffer because you have a human heart. What is worse is not to suffer, to block off from feelings of pain. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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