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This week another wife murdered her husbands girlfriend...wth?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 500743" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I think most people could get away with murder if they put some real thought into how to do it and how to get away after they did it. LOTS of murders never get solved. I would be unlikely to kill, mostly because that is WAY too easy an out. I would be FAR more likely to make husband wish he had never been born than to let him die and escape. her too. But I never aspired to nice. Not even once.</p><p></p><p>I do NOT understand killing the girlfriend. I have heard the thinking. I heard a friend go through it in agonizing detail. That is how I learned to NEVER offer advice to someone going through this. NEVER. The ONLY advice I offered was to think long and hard before making a decision and use a condom until you are SURE that it is over and you want to stay with him. This was an emotional affair that didnt' get to physical because they work for a "family company" and since she was not married she would have been transferred to Outer Mongolia (they actually have a research facility there, or near enough to it to count!). This company transfers couples who get together to different cities/states/countries if one party is married and the company finds out - even if they haven't been "physical". They have a real commitment to spouses and many employees are aware of this before they are married. IF you get involved iwth someone who isn't in the company then they stay out of it except to offer a lot of therapy and support options and if you stay with your spouse your odds of promotion go WAY up because you can keep to a commitment and are more trustworthy than if you leave your spouse. I don't know many companies who would do this, esp who make it known that breaking up a family is a way to really cap your career options early. I like it.</p><p></p><p>My husband knew before we married, LONG before we ever set a date, that I strongly believe in death do us part. I don't believe in divorce. Just not for me. I didn't marry lightly, and I won't kill him unless he does something that he could be executed by the justice system for, but I can make him wish he was dead. He is fine with it. He is rare, and actually has asked me a couple of times to PLEASE run some woman away because she is bothering him. I also remembering being in a used bookstore one day and he was with J in the kids section and I had the boys in another area. Some redheaded woman thought he was "all that" and she was really obvious about hitting on him. Jessie growled at her like a feral cat and said f she didn't leave she was going to eat her fingers off. husband was SO shocked. He had tried to hide all over from this woman, and I just watched and thought it was funny (because I knew he would NEVER go for her even if he was single) and Jess truly was the SWEETEST child and was about 2 and just the CUTEST little thing. That woman was so shocked, and then I walked up and Jess ran and gave me big kisses and then shot her the NASTIEST look - it truly was HILARIOUS!</p><p></p><p>I know, bad wife and mom, but that night even husband admitted it was pretty funny. You just would NEVER expect Jessie to growl or threaten someone then - it would be like seeing one of the cuter American Girl dolls turn into Chuckie for a moment. Just WHAT???????? Plus the look on the chick's face because she was trying to kiss up to Jessie to flirt with husband and Jess wouldn't let her near him. </p><p></p><p>I do think it is rather bad logic to kill the girlfriend. HE chose to stray. A man that will stray once? I can't trust, not if it was physical. I can see how it could be worked out, but trust would take years of hard work on both our parts - and at least a year on his to convince me to start to even try. I am just not that nice. But gfs are a dime a dozen. Just like with exsil there was NO use for bro to try to go after her boyfriend. She had too many of them. There would be bodies littering the roads for about forty miles if he tried.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 500743, member: 1233"] I think most people could get away with murder if they put some real thought into how to do it and how to get away after they did it. LOTS of murders never get solved. I would be unlikely to kill, mostly because that is WAY too easy an out. I would be FAR more likely to make husband wish he had never been born than to let him die and escape. her too. But I never aspired to nice. Not even once. I do NOT understand killing the girlfriend. I have heard the thinking. I heard a friend go through it in agonizing detail. That is how I learned to NEVER offer advice to someone going through this. NEVER. The ONLY advice I offered was to think long and hard before making a decision and use a condom until you are SURE that it is over and you want to stay with him. This was an emotional affair that didnt' get to physical because they work for a "family company" and since she was not married she would have been transferred to Outer Mongolia (they actually have a research facility there, or near enough to it to count!). This company transfers couples who get together to different cities/states/countries if one party is married and the company finds out - even if they haven't been "physical". They have a real commitment to spouses and many employees are aware of this before they are married. IF you get involved iwth someone who isn't in the company then they stay out of it except to offer a lot of therapy and support options and if you stay with your spouse your odds of promotion go WAY up because you can keep to a commitment and are more trustworthy than if you leave your spouse. I don't know many companies who would do this, esp who make it known that breaking up a family is a way to really cap your career options early. I like it. My husband knew before we married, LONG before we ever set a date, that I strongly believe in death do us part. I don't believe in divorce. Just not for me. I didn't marry lightly, and I won't kill him unless he does something that he could be executed by the justice system for, but I can make him wish he was dead. He is fine with it. He is rare, and actually has asked me a couple of times to PLEASE run some woman away because she is bothering him. I also remembering being in a used bookstore one day and he was with J in the kids section and I had the boys in another area. Some redheaded woman thought he was "all that" and she was really obvious about hitting on him. Jessie growled at her like a feral cat and said f she didn't leave she was going to eat her fingers off. husband was SO shocked. He had tried to hide all over from this woman, and I just watched and thought it was funny (because I knew he would NEVER go for her even if he was single) and Jess truly was the SWEETEST child and was about 2 and just the CUTEST little thing. That woman was so shocked, and then I walked up and Jess ran and gave me big kisses and then shot her the NASTIEST look - it truly was HILARIOUS! I know, bad wife and mom, but that night even husband admitted it was pretty funny. You just would NEVER expect Jessie to growl or threaten someone then - it would be like seeing one of the cuter American Girl dolls turn into Chuckie for a moment. Just WHAT???????? Plus the look on the chick's face because she was trying to kiss up to Jessie to flirt with husband and Jess wouldn't let her near him. I do think it is rather bad logic to kill the girlfriend. HE chose to stray. A man that will stray once? I can't trust, not if it was physical. I can see how it could be worked out, but trust would take years of hard work on both our parts - and at least a year on his to convince me to start to even try. I am just not that nice. But gfs are a dime a dozen. Just like with exsil there was NO use for bro to try to go after her boyfriend. She had too many of them. There would be bodies littering the roads for about forty miles if he tried. [/QUOTE]
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