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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 54244" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I would feel betrayed by the therapist if I were in your shoes. She should be helping easy child deal with her feelings about difficult child. What can she expect to gain out of that? What a burden to put upon her! This should be about how she feels about him. She can investigate those feelings and how to be more comfortable with herself with him in China. If you want him to see the therapist on your dime (and can afford it) to visit the issue of how either of them could benefit from a meeting in a way that you feel comfortable with, fine. But leading easy child to think that there's something immediate to be gained from seeing him is cruel. difficult child's problems are long term, his hurt to her is long term, and one meeting isn't going to do anything but open up old wounds. </p><p></p><p>Narc-Anon sounds like a much more reasonable idea.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 54244, member: 99"] I would feel betrayed by the therapist if I were in your shoes. She should be helping easy child deal with her feelings about difficult child. What can she expect to gain out of that? What a burden to put upon her! This should be about how she feels about him. She can investigate those feelings and how to be more comfortable with herself with him in China. If you want him to see the therapist on your dime (and can afford it) to visit the issue of how either of them could benefit from a meeting in a way that you feel comfortable with, fine. But leading easy child to think that there's something immediate to be gained from seeing him is cruel. difficult child's problems are long term, his hurt to her is long term, and one meeting isn't going to do anything but open up old wounds. Narc-Anon sounds like a much more reasonable idea. [/QUOTE]
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