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thoughts anyone??? ideas for when he is in full refusal mode....
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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 515528"><p>Oh hon, I hear you. If it were difficult child 1, we agree on a specific TIME when he will come in. If he won't do that, then he doesn't leave the house. We also agree on consequences before he leaves the house. One solution we have used is that for every 5 minutes he's late coming in OR if he fights me to come in, he loses an hour of play time the next day. We Plan B a lot. I also try not to let things carry over to the next day because the intent is lost on him. We DO carry things over when there is a clear agreement before he leaves that it will happen. For difficult child 1, I make HIM put it in writing before he leaves so he can't later try to tell me "I said X" or I never said A" or "I meant B". difficult child 1 is VERY good at trying to pull that stuff.</p><p></p><p>Not sure if that helps. difficult child 1 does much better when we agree on expectations and consequences BEFORE they happen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 515528"] Oh hon, I hear you. If it were difficult child 1, we agree on a specific TIME when he will come in. If he won't do that, then he doesn't leave the house. We also agree on consequences before he leaves the house. One solution we have used is that for every 5 minutes he's late coming in OR if he fights me to come in, he loses an hour of play time the next day. We Plan B a lot. I also try not to let things carry over to the next day because the intent is lost on him. We DO carry things over when there is a clear agreement before he leaves that it will happen. For difficult child 1, I make HIM put it in writing before he leaves so he can't later try to tell me "I said X" or I never said A" or "I meant B". difficult child 1 is VERY good at trying to pull that stuff. Not sure if that helps. difficult child 1 does much better when we agree on expectations and consequences BEFORE they happen. [/QUOTE]
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