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thoughts anyone??? ideas for when he is in full refusal mode....
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 515539" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>that is what we did, so I am sticking to it, just dont think it is going to stop him in the future. It is helping for today though and I am using that short term benefit to recover. His brain is really thinking. Trying to come up with all kinds of what if I can show you I can control my following directions for three days ??? THEN can we do X?? </p><p></p><p>He is watching the weather channel and getting all excited to see if he can wear shorts since they are saying 70's for a couple of days this week. Amazing.</p><p></p><p>I was shocked that when he saw I was crying he was actually trying to comfort me instead of being mean sounding about it as he usually is. I hardly ever cry around him. (unless a sad movie or something) Have your boys ever just said forget it and when faced with the consequences just taken off??? Your kids can go out and about without you right? Even going in to change the laundry got me in trouble this week. He is limited and frustrated by the fact that I have to be with him. I tried letting Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) do it but he got really super disrespectful to them in front of all the kids and it was ruining what we had built up with them so I said no more of that.</p><p></p><p>DDD-I agree, I won't put it off.</p><p>thanks for the support!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 515539, member: 12886"] that is what we did, so I am sticking to it, just dont think it is going to stop him in the future. It is helping for today though and I am using that short term benefit to recover. His brain is really thinking. Trying to come up with all kinds of what if I can show you I can control my following directions for three days ??? THEN can we do X?? He is watching the weather channel and getting all excited to see if he can wear shorts since they are saying 70's for a couple of days this week. Amazing. I was shocked that when he saw I was crying he was actually trying to comfort me instead of being mean sounding about it as he usually is. I hardly ever cry around him. (unless a sad movie or something) Have your boys ever just said forget it and when faced with the consequences just taken off??? Your kids can go out and about without you right? Even going in to change the laundry got me in trouble this week. He is limited and frustrated by the fact that I have to be with him. I tried letting Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) do it but he got really super disrespectful to them in front of all the kids and it was ruining what we had built up with them so I said no more of that. DDD-I agree, I won't put it off. thanks for the support! [/QUOTE]
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